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Medication Safety Tips For the Caregiver

2012-01-11T09:12:00.000-08:00

Medication Tips For the Caregiver
Written By : Rebecca Colmer

Did you know that the average senior takes two to seven daily medications?
As we age our bodies change, affecting the way medications (and foods) are absorbed, distributed, metabolized, and excreted.

All of these can create a greater risk of drug interactions and side effects. The more medications the care-receiver takes daily, the easier it is lose to track of how many to take and when they should be taken. Caregivers should use a medication organizer for their care-receiver. Consider these other tips: Continue article here

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Eldercare: Keeping Seniors Active and Engaged

2012-01-04T07:19:00.000-08:00

Thought we would pass this information along to our dedicated companions and other caregivers helping seniors to become active and engaged and stay in the comfort and familiarity of their own homes.

At Any Stage of the Game, Exercise Pays Off!

How Seniors Can Benefit from an Active Lifestyle

Being a senior doesn’t equal a sedentary life. So, you want to improve the activity level in your mother or father’s life? Perhaps you’ve recently retired from your 25 years as the vice president of your company and at last have the time to devote to a running or rock climbing group. How do you transition more exercise into your everyday routine? With the motivation to stay healthy, especially as you go through your golden years! That way, you can truly reap the benefits of being fit, agile and healthy that lives far beyond your expectations!... Continue article here

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HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

2012-01-01T06:59:00.000-08:00

Wee Care Nanny wishes you and your loved ones a happy and healthy 2012!

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HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

2011-12-21T16:06:00.000-08:00

Wee Care Nanny wants to wish one and all a wonderful holiday season and a happy, safe and prosperous New Year. We sincerely appreciate your patronage and look forward to working with everyone in 2012!

Warmest regards,

The Staff at Wee Care Nanny Agency

How Caregivers Can Help Keep Seniors Safe in Their Homes

2011-11-28T08:36:00.000-08:00

Potential Dangers Around the House
Written By : Tina Sherman

To those who are in the business of caring for seniors learning ways to prevent falls is a must. May people are still not aware of the fact that there are just as many fall hazards to seniors in the home but with the proper measures it is easy to prevent falls so that seniors are safe from the life altering effects of having a tumble and here are a few ideas that you can implement in the home.

• When in the kitchen, do you leave your counter top appliances such as mixer, coffee maker, mixer, and toaster on your countertop? Move them out of the way they might fall as your elderly companion does his or her cooking.

• Many seniors easily feel tired when standing for prolonged periods so anything that concerns food preparation should be done sitting down at a table to lessen the risks of falling and of course to prevent the senior from feeling fatigue.

• Clutter on the floor is oftentimes ignored but they are potential hazards because the senior has the potential of tripping on those things scattered on the floor... Continue story here

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Happy Thanksgiving Day!

2011-11-23T07:17:00.001-08:00

Wee Care Nanny wants to take this opportunity to wish you and your family a happy & healthy Thanksgiving Day! Stay Safe and have a wonderful holiday.

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Proposed Laws in California Regulating Nannies, Companions and other Household Workers are Misguided and Need Further Consideration

2011-11-15T14:19:00.000-08:00

As an Association of Premier nanny Agencies (APNA) board member, we are helping draw attention to some important issues facing our industry today. We are concerned that well intentioned efforts by CA legislators to protect household employees are actually misguided, and may actually end up hurting household workers, and make families less safe.

Below is the press Release from the APNA:

Proposed Laws for Household Workers

Risk to safety, business climate & tax collection

(November 15, 2011) – Recent legislative activity in New York and California is shining a spotlight on labor laws for nannies and other household employees, reinforcing the presumption that in-home workers are frequently mistreated. “The California laws under consideration (AB889) go too far and if passed, could result in an increased underground of illegal domestic workers – putting them and those in their care at greater risk – and potentially driving businesses from the state,” explains Daryl Camarillo, president of the Association of Premier Nanny Agencies - A Household Staffing Alliance (APNA).

One example of what California’s AB889 would do would be to require families to supply an additional caregiver to relieve a nanny for a documented 30 minute meal break and two, 10-minute rest breaks each day. “Families who fail to do so would have to pay their nanny more or risk being sued by their nanny and finding themselves liable for lawyer’s fees, fines and court costs,” says Denise Collins of San Francisco’s Aunt Ann’s In-House Staffing. “It’s impractical on so many levels. It almost defeats the purpose of hiring an in-home caregiver by adding additional costs and administrative duties for the family – not to mention, who will they find to take a job for 50 minutes a day – spread out throughout the day?”

“If these laws pass, parents could also be fined or sued for infractions such as failing to provide the nanny’s requested foods – even if a child in her care is allergic to one of the foods,” adds Camarillo. “The lawmakers’ intentions are good, but we predict passage of AB889 as it stands now would result in so many additional duties, risks and costs for families that many will resort to hiring under the table.”

Illegal hiring can drive down wages and reduce employment opportunities for legally-hired domestic employees. In addition, California’s business climate could suffer if it’s harder for parents to work because of burdensome childcare laws.”

A climate that encourages underground or “do-it-yourself” hiring also creates dangers people can’t foresee. “A perfect example is background checks. Most people don’t understand that the inexpensive ‘nationwide’ background check offered by many online listing services for nannies and babysitters isn’t really nationwide and isn’t very thorough,” says Camarillo.

“We’ve been working for years to sound the alarm that a proper background check involves human vetting, time and some cost. Quality agencies hire professionals to screen candidates before sending them on interviews. People who are hiring nannies, personal assistants, elder companions and housekeepers often don’t even consider that they should check for a criminal record – and they should.”

Respected household staffing agencies safeguard families and domestic workers by educating both sides about salaries, employment and tax laws that can vary widely from state to state, industry norms, and the importance of written work agreements.

“Legal, household employees are already well protected by existing state and federal laws governing human rights, disability, work conditions and overtime. Most earn more than minimum wage. In California their salaries range between $15 and $30 an hour which is taxed and contributes to their ability to collect social security, unemployment and other social safety nets tied to legal employment.”

California is often at the leading edge of social issues, so we want to communicate to its lawmakers, and those nationwide, that proposals such as AB889 might appear to increase worker protection, but unless the laws are carefully crafted, they could result in unintended consequences.”

Contacts:

•Daryl Camarillo, APNA President, (650) 462-4580 or apna@spnannies.com

•Denise Collins, APNA Vice president, (415) 749-3650

•Mellisa Peckham, APNA Treasurer, (203) 359-8410 or mellisa@weecarenanny.com

•Go to www.theAPNA.org to find an APNA agency in your community and valuable information for families and people seeking household employment

APNA is a self-regulating organization that helps set the bar for industry standards and practices. APNA member agencies have their contracts, applications and business practices scrutinized by peers to ensure they know and follow all applicable laws. You are dealing with a quality household staffing service when you see the APNA seal.

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Healing Hearts Family Fundraiser of Stamford, CT

2011-11-03T07:59:00.000-07:00

Wee Care Nanny Agency is proud to recognize and support Healing Hearts Pediatric Therapy Center in Stamford, Connecticut. Two of the key administrators and founders of Healing Hearts are good friends, and wonderful and caring individuals. Tom Bacha and Kimberly Colletto dedicate their time, energy and resources to make a profound difference in the lives of children with special needs. The Healing Hearts special needs therapy center provides 10 types of therapy, including, occupational, speech and physical therapy. Healing Hearts provides specialized therapeutic treatments for children with cerebral palsy, autism, motor-development delays and other neuro-motor disorders.

We hope you and your family will take the time to stop by, learn more and participate in the day's fun events.

Heal your heart by helping
“Healing Hearts” a Non-profit 501(c)(3) organization (social and recreational division) that helps children who have various disabilities.
Saturday, November 19, 2011- 3:00p.m-6:00p.m.
Admission is free, donations will be kindly accepted!

This event will be full of fun activities for all ages and abilities.
Free demos
BOXING CAPOIRA
YOGA BRAZILIAN JUI-JITSU
FENCING MMA CONDITIONING
KRAV MAGA TUMBLE TIME
HYDRO MASSAGE MUSIC TOGETHER
FACE PAINTING BOOT CAMP
ZUMBA TECHNOFIT
Free Food & Beverages & Free Babysitting will be provided
BGC Live Entertainment & Raffles
Heavy Hitting Boxing and Fitness presents White Collar-Boxing Matches
Boys & Girls Club of Stamford will be assisting and helping the cause!

BREAKTHRU FITNESS
48 Union Street
Stamford, CT
203-355-9395
Healing Hearts Family
www.healingheartscenter.org
Fundraiser OF STAMFORD

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Medication Tips For the Caregiver

2011-11-02T08:29:00.000-07:00

We thought our experienced caregivers, who may be licensed as a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA), Home Heath Aide (HHA), Licensed Practical Nurse (LPN) or Personal Care Assistant (PCA) would find the article below helpful.

Medication Tips For the Caregiver
Written By : Rebecca Colmer

Did you know that the average senior takes two to seven daily medications? As we age our bodies change, affecting the way medications (and foods) are absorbed, distributed, metabolized, and excreted.

All of these can create a greater risk of drug interactions and side effects. The more medications the care-receiver takes daily, the easier it is lose to track of how many to take and when they should be taken.

Caregivers should use a medication organizer for their care-receiver.
Consider these other tips: Continue article here

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Caregiver Burnout, the Warning Signs

2011-10-19T07:30:00.000-07:00

7 Ways to Identify Caregiver Burnout
Written By : Hal Robertson

All across the world, family members are helping their elders out by paying bills, cleaning their house, supervising medications and in some cases much, much more. As their elder continues to age and grows more frail, the tasks involved generally become much more time consuming and in many cases, more difficult. For example, helping out with grocery shopping may evolve into cooking meals for them. Or a weekly phone call to check on dad may turn into daily visits to reassure yourself that he's OK.

In America, close to seven million elders depend on others to help them with daily living. This can and often does lead to caregiver burnout. When you get to the point there a good night's sleep fails to brighten your mood the next morning, you could very well be looking at caregiver stress. Continue article here

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Some Positive Effects of Rearing Bilingual Children

2011-10-17T08:17:00.000-07:00

We frequently get requests from families for nannies that are fluent in Spanish, French or Chinese. It appears new research is beginning to demonstrate the benefits of immersing a young child in a second language. We have some clients whose young children are currently learning a third language from their caregivers at the ripe old age of 6. Hope you find the article below interesting.

Hearing Bilingual: How Babies Sort Out Language
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/10/11/health/views/11klass.html?src=me&ref=general

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10 Easy Steps to Teach Seniors to Use a Computer

2011-09-28T09:56:00.000-07:00

Some of our experienced eldercare companions have taught their clients to use a computer with great success. Many of these clients now communicate with their children, grandchildren and even great grandchildren via email, Facebook and Skype. For many seniors, it has opened up a new avenue for them to keep in close contact with their loved ones and share in the milestone moments of their grandkids. Others have reported reconnecting via Facebook with friends they haven't heard from in 50 years. It is a great tool for seniors. And we have found many of our older clients tend to really embrace the technology once they get over the initial fear factor.

Teaching Seniors Computers - 10 Tips
Written By : Michael Gorzka

I've been teaching library computer classes since 1997. Here are my top 10 tips for teaching
seniors how to use a computer.

1) State the goals of the class before you begin instructing. People will come into a class with different skill levels. Advanced students will often work ahead or surf the web if the class material is too basic for them.

This can distract you and other people in the class.

After everyone in the class has been seated, I introduce myself and then say something like: "Just to
make sure we're all on the same page here, this the Introduction to Email Class". In this class we cover the
very basics of sending and receiving email messages. Is that why we're all here?"

2) Use real life parallels whenever possible...Read entire article

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National Nanny Recognition Week- September 18-24, 2011

2011-09-19T07:11:00.000-07:00

National Nanny Recognition Week was started in 1998 by a group of industry professionals including the National Association of Nannies (NAN), to promote and honor professional nannies.

Happy National Nanny Recognition Week to all the exceptional nannies who go above and beyond to care for their charges. Wee Care Nanny sincerely thanks you and greatly appreciates the wonderful and valuable service you provide throughout the year.

For Families, if you employ a nanny there are many ways you can recognize their hard work and show your appreciation:

Take her out to lunch or dinner with the family.
Give her a gift certificate to her favorite restaurant, spa or bookstore.
Give her a letter letting her know how much you and your family appreciate her and what she means to your family.
Send a gift basket with her favorite chocolates, sweets, coffee, tea or a fruit basket. Please don't forget to include a personal thank you note.
Ask your children to write a thank you letter and make a special gift showing how much they love and appreciate her.
If possible, let her go early one day and pay her for the full day.
Provide a gift certificate for yoga or dance classes or to the theater or movies etc.
Most importantly, remember to sincerely thank her for everything she does throughout the year for your family and peace of mind.

Thank you again for your hard work and the valuable service you provide!

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Pets for Seniors - Enhance Quality of Life

2011-09-14T10:36:00.000-07:00

Pets for Seniors - Enhance Quality of Life
Written By : G. Dube

Recent studies indicate that seniors who own pets, live longer, experience better health and enjoy life much more than the senior who has no pet companionship. Results have shown that pet owners often experience a decrease in temperature, stress level, and even blood pressure! In addition to this luxury of companionship, pets can provide joy, entertainment, love and security and even calm the pet owner. Pets love you for being you -- not for the psychological games you play -- not "only" for the treats you shell out frequently -- they are forgiving, loyal and love you unconditionally.

Learn the 6 ways pet ownership can enhance a senior's quality of life: Continue article here

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Teaching Children to Be Critical Thinkers and Other Life Lessons

2011-09-09T15:03:00.000-07:00

I found this article from the NYT interesting and wanted to share it.

School Curriculum Falls Short on Bigger Lessons

By Tara Parker-Pope

Now that children are back in the classroom, are they really learning the lessons that will help them succeed?

Many child development experts worry that the answer may be no. They say the ever-growing emphasis on academic performance and test scores means many children aren’t developing life skills like self-control, motivation, focus and resilience, which are far better predictors of long-term success than high grades. And it may be distorting their and their parents’ values...continue article here

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When Seniors are Resistant to Eldercare

2011-08-31T10:08:00.000-07:00

Found this article to be helpful and on point.

When Seniors Say No to Help
By : Steven Freese

Caregiver Support Series Helps Families Overcome Resistance

A family caregiver’s job, by definition, is already a difficult one. Time away from work and family, and the worry of caring for a senior adult all can take a toll. But when you consider that many seniors often resist help, that job becomes overwhelming for so many caregivers in our own area.

A study of family caregivers conducted for the Home Instead Senior Care^® network revealed that more than half of the respondents (51 percent) said that their aging relative was very resistant to care. These seniors often object to help whether it’s from a family caregiver or a professional who tries to come into their homes to assist.

This is a real problem for family caregivers worried about the safety of a senior loved one who might be forgetting food on the stove or neglecting to take their medications. Some seniors are so resistant I’ve heard stories of them calling the police when their family members have arranged for a caregiver to visit their home...Continue article

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Financial Misconduct of the Elderly

2011-08-17T09:52:00.000-07:00

As an agency that places companions and caregivers with seniors, we found this to be an interesting article as this is a subject that can unfortunately rear its ugly head without proper vetting and thorough background checks on a caregiver as well.

Financial Abuse of the Elderly

Written By : Bill Hayes

When a loved one gets older, it is common for use to worry about them. Are their needs being met? Should they be put in a home? Can we trust those who are looking after them?

Sadly, these causes for concern are justified. Cases of abuse are far too common for us to pretend they don't exist. One of the most common forms of elder mistreatment is financial abuse. This article will examine what financial abuse is, how it happens / who does it, and what you can do legally to correct the problem....continue article here

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Gardening, A Great Way for Seniors to Stay Active

2011-08-10T07:20:00.000-07:00

Why Gardening is Great For Seniors
Written By : SeniorsList

Gardening in our retirement years can be a great experience. Not only does it provide a place of respite and peace, but it provides a great source of exercise. In fact, the medical community now recognizes the power for hobbies and everyday activities to provide exercise for the body. Just think of all the movements it takes to grow and maintain a garden. You’re digging, carrying dirt, bending down, standing up, and moving your muscles and joints. No wonder gardening is such a great activity! And that’s not to mention all the fresh air and sunshine you get as well... Continue reading article

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Happy Fourth of July- Results from 4 on the 4th Race in New Canaan, CT 2011

2011-07-04T10:04:00.000-07:00

We had a great time this morning at the race and enjoyed seeing everyone and meeting new people. We look forward to providing the refreshments and toys for the kids again next year.

Have a happy & healthy 4th of July.

Race Results for 4 on the 4th

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Four on the Fourth Road Race in New Canaan, Connecticut on July 4th 2011

2011-06-28T10:51:00.000-07:00

Four on the Fourth in New Canaan, Connecticut

July 4th is the 29th annual (Four on the Fourth) Independence Day Race in New Canaan. Great way to start off the day with a 4 mile run along scenic Oenoke Ridge in New Canaan.

Please stop by and say hello as Wee Care Nanny Agency will again be sponsoring the water table at the finish line and providing fun toys for the children.

July 4, 2011
Monday, 9 AM St. Mark's Church, Rt. 124, New Canaan, CT
Online Registration for Four on the Fourth

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Fourth of July 2011 Fireworks Events in Fairfield County, CT and Westchester County, NY

2011-06-27T09:59:00.000-07:00

Our friends at Serendipity Magazine put together a list of upcoming Fireworks Events for Independence Weekend 2011. Have a Happy and Safe 4th of July!

All fireworks start at sunset

**Friday, July 1**

Indepence Day Fireworks Celebration
Compo Beach
Compo Beach Road, Westport, CT

FireFlies Nature's Mini-Fireworks;
Audubon Greenwich:
613 Riversville Road, Greenwich, CT

**Saturday, July 2**

2011 Rowayton Civic Associations July 4th Fireworks
Bayley Beach
11 Rocky Point Road, Norwalk, CT

Binney Park
Between Sound Beach Avenue and Arch Street,
Old Greenwich, CT

2011 Rowayton Civic Associations July 4th Fireworks
Bayley Beach
11 Rocky Point Road, Norwalk, CT

Fireworks Celebration; Ridgefield High School
700 North Salem Road, Ridgefield, CT

Pound Ridge Town Park
Pound Ridge, NY

**Sunday July 3**

Rye Playland

Playland Parkway, Rye, NY

Every Wednesday and Friday through September 2.

Special Holiday Show July 3 and 4

Kensico Dam Music Fest

Kensico Dam Plaza, White Plains, NY

Pops, Patriots and Fireworks

Caramoor Center for Music and Arts

149 Girdle Ridge Road, Katonah, NY

**Monday, July 4**

HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY!

Jennings Beach
880 South Benson Road, Fairfield, CT

Mamaroneck Village Hall
169 Mount Pleasant Ave., Mamaroneck, NY

31st Annual Fireworks; Waveny Park
677 South Ave., New Canaan, CT

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5K Road Race and Fireworks Show In Pound Ridge, NY on July 2nd

2011-06-25T20:01:00.000-07:00

July 2nd is the 12th annual Independence Day Race in Pound Ridge, NY. It's a great way to start off the holiday weekend with a 5K run through scenic Pound Ridge. This year's race will take a new course starting and ending in the town park.

Saturday, July 2, 2011
9:00 AM (5K)
10:00 AM-11:00 AM (Kids’ Races)
Race Information

And the spectacular annual Fireworks show starts around dusk in the Pound Ridge Town Park.

It is a great day of fun for the whole family and we hope to see you there.

July 2, 2011
Saturday, Pound Ridge Town Park 199 Westchester Avenue

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Workplace Protections Debated for Nannies and other Domestic Workers

2011-06-15T09:32:00.001-07:00

I heard the segment below on Marketplace on my drive home from work yesterday and found it interesting. Labor groups are seeking workplace protections for nannies and housekeepers, even though U.S. law prevents domestic workers from joining unions. We think a general standard like the NYS Domestic Workers’ Bill of Rights set up last year is a good start to ensure basic worker rights are met. However, we have found that clients going through our agency understand this and want to offer basic workplace protections like paid vacation, a day of rest per week, overtime pay etc. because it ensures a better (and happier) domestic worker, long term employment and a dedicated nanny or housekeeper for their family.

Organized Labor Fighting for Domestic Worker Rights

AFL-CIO and other labor groups want workplace protections for nannies and housekeepers, even though U.S. law prevents those workers from joining unions...Continue article here.

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Summer Nannies-What you Need to Know

2011-06-01T10:20:00.000-07:00

We thought we would re-post the article below since we get a lot of questions at this time of the year about summer nannies.
Wee Care Nanny's Summer Nanny Program

Summer Nannies FAQ's

Summer Nannies: Seven Frequently-Asked Questions About Working as a Summer Nanny, or Hiring One

With summer right around the corner, many families are making plans for summer vacation. As kids look forward to a break from the school-year routine, parents are faced with an array of decisions about summer child care and how to balance the needs of their children with the demands of their jobs. Families also think about vacations, and the challenge of planning a family trip that is fun and interesting for kids and adults alike.

Summer nannies – often students or teachers – frequently figure into these plans. Sometimes families with older children, who do not need a nanny during the school year, choose to hire a nanny for the summer because their children would prefer not to go to summer camp, or because the camp schedule doesn’t cover their needs. By hiring a nanny for summer child care, the parents make it possible for the children to spend unstructured time at home, playing with neighborhood children, taking advantage of local activities, or perhaps just enjoying some down time.

For other families, particularly those with babies or small children, a summer nanny enables them to take a family vacation that meets the needs and expectations of kids and adults alike. By taking a nanny with them on vacation, parents are able to spend some time along together, enjoy a leisurely meal at a nice restaurant, and relax, knowing that their children are well cared for.
Whether you’re thinking about hiring a nanny for summer child care, or you’re interested in working as one, you’ve probably asked the following questions:

1. What do summer nannies do?Summer nannies may be full-time, part-time, live-in, or live-out. Like full-time, year-round nannies, they may be asked to manage light housekeeping duties in addition to taking care of children. Summer nannies and families should be sure to discuss these expectations, as well as salary and pay schedule, in advance of committing to work together for the summer.

2. How do families find summer nannies?Parents can find summer nannies through nanny agencies, as well as through the recommendations of friends and colleagues. Some resort and family travel destinations may be able to help you find short-term nanny services. In some cities parents will find nanny agencies that specialize in providing temporary nanny services with complete background checks. At destinations popular with families, the hotel may be able to help.

3. How can summer nannies find jobs?As for nannies, there are many ways to find summer nanny jobs, including through nanny agencies and through word of mouth. If you’re looking for work as a summer nanny, be sure to tell everyone you know of your interest in finding a summer nanny job. If you’re a student, check campus bulletin boards, the school paper, and any other places where families might advertise for a nanny.

4. How should expenses be handled when a nanny travels with a family? It’s important to remember that when a nanny accompanies a family on vacation, no matter how lovely the locale, the nanny is still working. The nanny and parents should discuss and agree on a schedule for the trip in advance, making sure that the nanny’s needs are met in terms of time off and breaks.
Families should be prepared to cover all of the nanny’s travel expenses, including airfare, lodging, meals, and admission to attractions which he or she visits with the family. If the nanny does not eat all meals with the family, s/he should be given a meal allowance to purchase meals.

5. What accommodations should be provided?If at all possible, the nanny should have a separate bedroom, not one shared with the children, so that the nanny has a place to rest and relax when off duty.

6. How much does a summer nanny earn? Salaries for summer nannies vary tremendously depending on the number of children in their care, the number of hours they work, the responsibilities they’re given, their level of experience and education, and the region of the country where they are employed. Ballpark guidelines range from $8 to $22 per hour. The best way to find out what’s typical in your area is to ask a nanny agency, or to ask several friends or colleagues who have either hired nannies or have worked as a nanny.

7. What about taxes?Remember that summer nannies are subject to the same tax regulation as year-round nannies. For more info, see: Year-end Tax Tips for Employees

This article was published on nanny.com newsletter, April 2009
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Challenge Your Mind in Retirement and Stay Sharp

2011-06-01T07:24:00.000-07:00

Challenge Your Mind in Retirement
Written By : Cynthia Barnett

You have probably heard people say that the best way to keep your mind sharp after retirement is to exercise it. This "use-it-or-lose-it thinking" is the subject of much debate. Many are deeply committed to this belief while others are skeptical. Although I cannot tell you mental activity will prevent Alzheimer's, I do believe mental activity will prevent mental atrophy. The brain works by sending messages across nerve connections. The more we use and reinforce those connections, the better our mind and memory work. So, to that end, here are ten great ways to challenge your mind in retirement...Continue here

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Avoiding Legal Problems When Managing a Household Staff

2011-05-31T18:52:00.000-07:00

Read this over the weekend in the NYT and thought I would share it.

HOUSEKEEPERS have been in the news lately. Look no further than former Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger of California, who recently admitted that he had a child more than 10 years ago with his former housekeeper.

But this column is for the other people who employ household help — housekeepers, nannies, chefs, butlers and estate managers. Their problems are more about being compliant with employment and tax laws and ensuring low turnover.

“There is no rocket science in our business,” said Travis Dommert, chief operating officer of the Lindquist Group, one of the oldest placement firms for household help in the country. “It’s about how you hire, manage and retain good people and not get sued in the process.”

Yet otherwise smart, wealthy people seem to have a harder time managing their household employees than the people they work with in their day jobs. Here are some tips for people planning to hire household help...Read entire story here

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Family Fun for Memorial Day Weekend 2011 in CT & Westchester, NY

2011-05-25T06:56:00.000-07:00

Wee Care Nanny wishes you and your family a happy, relaxing and safe Memorial Day Holiday.

We listed some family activities taking place over the long weekend throughout Fairfield County, CT and Westchester, NY. We hope you enjoy.

Memorial Day Fun
Memorial Day weekend usually means a break from the normal routine, giving you and your family the opportunity to enjoy activities that you might not have time for on a typical weekend. Here are a few things going on nearby.

FAIRFIELD COUNTY, CT

Wednesday, May 25th, 2011 10:30 - 11:30 am & Thursday, May 26th, 2011 9:30 - 10:30 am

FREE! Mommy and Me Story Time and Songs

Giant Steps Toy and Baby

226 Kings Highway East
Fairfield, ct 06825

http://giantstepstoys.com

Hear special themed books hand-selected to delight your child. Work together on a specially prepared arts and crafts project. Listen, Laugh, Sing, Smile - the perfect activity for you or your mom group. One of Giant Steps most popular weekly events! Ages 2-5+ recommended

Saturday, May 28th, 2011 11:00 am - 3:00 pm

Farming Fever

Connecticut's Beardsley Zoo

1875 Noble Avenue
Bridgeport, CT 06610

http://www.beardsleyzoo.org+

Join us for an afternoon of learning about farm animals and farming with former Connecticut resident Chris Rowlands, an entertainer who’s famous for getting everyone involved. Children are invited to wear fun hats and sing along with Rowlands on stage as he shares his self- penned songs such as "Cud Chewing," a tribute to cows. Presented in partnership with the Fairfield County Farm Bureau.

Take a Marine Life Study Cruise and explore the shores of the sound for crabs, fish, and lobsters with educators from the Maritime Aquarium. Suitable for ages 8 and up. May 28. 1pm. $20.50. Maritime Aquarium, 10 North Water Street, Norwalk, CT. 203-852-0700.

Kids can jump on stage, sing, and wear hats as entertainer Chris Rowlands presents Farming Fever, a show that gets everyone involved in learning about farming and farm animals. May 28-29. 11am-3pm. $11; $9 children 3-11. Beardsley Zoo, 1875 Noble Avenue, Bridgeport, CT. 203-394-6563.

Take time to smell the roses and learn about a variety of plants in bloom in Family Programs: Garden Exploration at the Bartlett Arboretum. Find out what attracts honeybees and butterflies to the garden. May 28. 1pm. $18; free children under 12. Bartlett Arboretum, 151 Brookdale Road, Stamford, CT. 203-322-6971.

Children of all ages can stop by during regular library hours and make a craft at Drop-In Memorial Day Crafts. May 28. 10am-5pm. FREE. Wilton Library, 137 Old Ridgefield Road, Wilton. 203-762-3950.

At Lobster Days, crack some claws and let the butter drip as you sit by the water on the grounds of the Mystic Seaport. May 28-30. 11am-4pm. $24, kids 6-17 $15 (lobster dinner extra). Mystic Seaport, 75 Greenmanville Avenue, Mystic. 888-973-2767.

After the Memorial Day parade in town, bring a blanket and picnic on the museum's lawn at the 4th Annual Memorial Day Community Picnic. May 30. Noon-3pm. Fairfield Museum and History Center, 1520 Bronson Road, Fairfield, 203-259-1598.

http://www.nymetroparents.com/article/Fairfield-CountyCTMay-Calendar-HighlightsFamily-Activities

WESTCHESTER, NY

5/28/11
ONE WITH WARBLERS The last wave of these active migrants. The habitats of Marshlands will overwhelm you with bird songs and calls of many of our feathered visitors. Please bring binoculars.
Hours: Saturday 7:30 a.m. FreeLocation: Marshlands Conservancy Route 1
Rye, NY 10580 For additional information: 9914) 835-4466 Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/28/11
POND EXPLORATION Cranberry's premiere program, offered to hundreds of school children each year, is open to the public once a summer. Join us on this kid-friendly search for tadpoles, water bugs, snails and more. Nets provided, wear rubber boot if you have them. Hours:
Saturday 1 p.m. FreeLocation: Cranberry Lake Preserve Old Orchard Street North White Plains, NY 10603 For additional information: (914) 428-1005 Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/28/11
WALKING TOUR OF THE WILDFLOWER GARDEN
Join us for a tour of Trailside's Luquer-Marble Wildflower Garden while the flowers are at their peak. The garden is home to over 70 species of flowers and ferns and includes some increasingly rare native plant species. Hours: Saturday 1 p.m. Parking $4 with Westchester County Park Pass; $8 without Park PassLocation: Trailside Nature Museum Ward Pound Ridge Reservation routes 35 & 121 South
Cross River, NY 10518 For additional information: (914) 864-7322
Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/28/11
NIGHT OF THE HORSESHOE CRAB
Come and experience a tradition over 200 million years old! The moon will be full, the tide will be high, and the horseshoe crabs will be coming in to mate. Hours: Saturday 10:30 p.m.
FreeLocation: Marshlands Conservancy Route 1 Rye, NY 10580 For additional information: (914) 835-4466 Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/28/11, 5/29/11
ARTIST GALLERY - "FLORALS AND TRAVEL" Watercolors by Waltra Maurer. Exhibit in the Main House Gallery. Hours: Saturday & Sunday noon - 4 p.m. Free Location: Muscoot Farm
Route 100 Somers, NY 10589 For additional information: (914) 864-7282
Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/28/11, 5/29/11, 5/30/11, 6/4/11, 6/5/11, 6/11/11, 6/12/11, 6/18/11, 6/19/11
WESTCHESTER COUNTY BEACHES OPEN
Beaches open for weekends on a pre-season basis. Season opening Wednesday - Sunday, (closed Monday & Tuesday), June 24 through September 5. Hours August 15 - September 5 Noon - 6 p.m.
Hours: Weekends and Holidays 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. $4 adults, $3 children 5 - 11 years old, $2 seniors (weekdays only)Location: Glen Island*, New Rochelle - *Park Pass Required
Playland Beach, Playland Park, Rye Croton Point Beach, Croton-on-Hudson various, NY
For additional information: (914) 864-PARK Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/29/11
MUSCOOT FARMERS MARKET
Fresh produce, meat, cheese, soap, candles, honey, mape syrup, flowers, fish and delicious baked goods. Hours: Sunday 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. FreeLocation: Muscoot Farm
Route 100 Somers, NY 10589 For additional information: (914) 864-7278
Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/29/11
MEET THE BABY ANIMALS
Experience a close encounter with our new baby animals.
Hours: Sunday 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. FreeLocation: Muscoot Farm
Route 100 Somers, NY 10589 For additional information: (914) 864-7282
Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/29/11
. TOUR OF THE MAIN HOUSE AT LASDON
Learn about the history of Lasdon Park and Arboretum while touring the Main House.
Hours: Sunday 2 p.m. FreeLocation: Lasdon Park, Arboretum & Veterans Memorial
Route 35 Somers, NY 10589 For additional information: (914) 864-7263
Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/29/11
NATURALIST CHOICE HIKEhttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gif
Let the naturalist guide you through the magic and mysteries of Marshlands.
Hours: Sunday 2 p.m. FreeLocation: Marshlands Conservancy
Route 1 Rye, NY 10580 For additional information: (914) 835-4466
Westchester County Parks Dept.

5/30/11
26TH ANNUAL MEMORIAL DAY ANTIQUES FAIR
Rain or shine. Call (914) 273-4667 or www.cordshows.com for information.
Hours: Monday 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. $7 (kids under 13 free) Location:
Lasdon Park, Arboretum & Veterans Memorial Route 35 Somers, NY 10589
For additional information: (914) 864-7268 Westchester County Parks Dept.

http://www.hvwebtv.com/westchesterevents.html

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Sports and Activities for Senior Citizens to Stay Active & Engaged

2011-05-11T06:47:00.000-07:00

Feeling Sporty? Popular Activities for Seniors
Written By : SeniorsList

If you feel like you need to get out more, you’re not alone. Senior citizens and non-seniors alike are in need of consistent physical exercise. Sporty activities are an enjoyable way to get your body moving, but not all forms are best for senior citizens. Seek out those sports that you enjoy and that exert your body to a comfortable degree. Here are some of the top ranked sports for the active senior: Read entire article

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Helping Seniors Stay Engaged with Pet Therapy

2011-05-04T07:29:00.000-07:00

Pet Therapy for the Elderly
Written By : Ryan Brancato

Linda's mother had been receiving in-home care in NJ for several years. While the care was excellent, her mother just did not seem like her old self. Then one day, Linda, a 45-year-old mother, brought a puppy home for her own mother. It was then that she and her family learned firsthand the affect a pet can have on the health and outlook of a senior. Linda's mother became more active: grooming, feeding, and playing with the new puppy rather than spending most of her time sleeping or watching television....Continue article here

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Bedford, NY Carnival Coming May 10th to May 15th

2011-05-03T10:46:00.000-07:00

I thought I would help spread the word to all living in or around Northern Westchester. The carnival is a lot of fun or "really awesome" as my 7 year old puts it. Hope you enjoy.

http://northernwestchester.lohudblogs.com/2011/05/08/carnival-week-starts-tuesday-night-in-bedford/

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Helping Children to become More Resilient and better Communicators

2011-04-18T07:33:00.000-07:00

I came across this article posted by Nanny.com and thought I would share it.

"How Was School Today?"
The Governor of Denver, John Hickenlooper, credits his mom for his teflon personality and ability to laugh in the face of mudslinging campaign ads directed at him. In one of his commercials, he takes shower after shower -- fully dressed -- to wash off the "mud" of negative campaign ads.

Such resilience is a quality all children could all benefit from -- Hickenlooper says that when he was a kid, his mom would talk to him each day after school, inevitably asking also, "Did you say anything mean to anyone today?" and "Did you say anything mean behind someone's back?" If he could honestly answer "No," he would get a star.

Note that Mrs. Hickenlooper didn't limit the conversation to this single question. The governor says that that she "would talk to him each day." Once you get it going, this kind of conversation is great for kids. Parents who get no response to "How was school today?" might try expanding things by telling what they themselves did, and how it worked out. Children need examples of how to communicate, how to converse. Let them know and feel the value of chatting about the day -- for a few moments or more, whatever it takes. Why should children be the only ones to tell about themselves?

For Hickenlooper there were gold, silver and red stars, and depending on how many he got of each, he would be rewarded. I didn't catch all the details of this story, heard on NPR, or know the nature of the reward, but the result was that Hickenlooper learned to laugh at himself and be kind to others.

What a Mom, that Mrs. Hickemlooper!

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Managing Your Time in Retirement

2011-04-06T07:15:00.000-07:00

Effectively Manage Your Time in Retirement
Written By : Cynthia Barnett

If you're a recent retiree or a veteran retiree, you likely realize that although you have a lot more time to do the things you want to do, you still have a difficult time getting everything done. Its not that you're a flake or simply aren't motivated, it's just that your time management skills need to be tightened up a bit. You need to learn how to better prioritize your goals in order to get the most done in the least amount of time. Well, don't worry, you can effectively manage your time and get more done than you ever intended to do by following these ten tips:
http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1348

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Temporary Coverage Available for the Holidays

2011-04-01T08:12:00.000-07:00

We wish everyone and their families a Happy Easter and Passover this month!

We recognize this is a busy time for many families and if you need temporary childcare coverage, party helpers or house cleaning, please do not hesitate to contact our temporary division.

Temporary Services

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Helping Seniors to Stay Fit and Active

2011-03-30T08:00:00.000-07:00

Yoga Isn't Just for the Young

Written By : Tim Gorman

Yoga for elders is a particularly good application of the practice of yoga since it offers a complete method of physical fitness, including increased levels of strength and energy. Having immediate access helps make yoga a popular practice.

The basic principles of yoga can be put to use by anybody at any age level, but the more advanced stages of yoga might be hard to reach by most people. The advanced stages of yoga are certainly not required and not advisable to attempt for elders... http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1441

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Upcoming Events in March for the Entire Family

2011-03-03T12:30:00.000-08:00

Friday, March 4

Cats - New Haven - Introduce your family to the wonders of live theater with the magic, mystery and memory of Cats. Shubert Theater, 247 College St. 7:30 p.m. $15-$72. 800-228-6622. Also on 3/5
at 2 and 7:30 p.m. and 3/6 at 2 p.m.

Saturday, March 5
Irish Night - Milford - Celebrate the green with the Highland Rovers Band, TRAD, Fairfield Gaelic Pipe Band, step dancers, raffles and more. Coffee and dessert provided. Lauralton Hall, 200 High St. 7:30 p.m. $25. RSVP. 203-877-2786, ext. 114.

Family Entertainment Series - Hamden - Pumpernickel Puppets present Sir George and the Dragon. Thornton Wilder Hall, Miller Cultural Complex, 2901 Dixwell Ave. 1 p.m. $2-$3. 203-287-2546.

Pirates of Penzance - Madison - Enjoy this excellent performance by the students of The Country School. The Country School, 341 Opening Hill Road. 7 p.m. $5. 203-421-3113. Also on March 6 at 2 p.m.

Sunday, March 6
Stamford Young Artists - Stamford - Listen to the Young String Ensemble, Young People's Symphony and Young Artists Philharmonic. Palace Theater, 61 Atlantic Street. 7 p.m. $13-$20. 203-325-4466.

Friday, March 11
Swan Lake - Fairfield - Performed by the Russian National Ballet Theatre, the show embodies the tradition of classical Russian Ballet and new developments in dance from around the world. Quick Center for the Arts, 200 Barlow Road. 8 p.m. $35, $40 and $45. 203-254-4010.

Saturday, March 12
Critters & Crafts - Westport - Enjoy a family program with a live animal, story and crafts. Children must be with an adult. Ages 3 and up. Earthplace, 10 Woodside Lane. 2:30-3:15 p.m. Regular admission. 203-227-7253. Also on March 26.

Winter Creature Cruises - Norwalk - Journey out to Long Island Sound and see seals that spend the winter just off the shore. Educators discuss their histories. For ages 8 and up. Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St. 9:30 a.m. $18.50-$20.50. 203-852-0700. Also on March 13, 26 and 27; times vary.

Celtic Dreams - Hamden - The New Haven Symphony Orchestra Pops transports you to the magical land of Eire! Hamden Middle School, 2623 Dixwell Avenue. 2:30-5 p.m. $35 and $45. 203-865-0831.

Sunday, March 13
Greater New Haven St. Patrick's Day Parade - New Haven - Come watch over 3,200 marchers and musical units celebrate the diversity of many cultures. Begins at Chapel Street; ends at Orange Street. 1 p.m. Free. 203-484-0556.

Summer Festival Program Auditions - Fairfield - Musicians,ages 8-18, can audition for the Summer Festival Music CampProgram offered by Chamber Music Central. Unquowa School, 981 Stratfield Road. 203-227-0662. Also on March 20.

Friday, March 18
All Shook Up - New Haven - It's a square town until a motorcycle ridin', guitar playin' and hip swivelin' hunk rides in and shakes things up. This musical comedy features over 24 Elvis hits. Shubert Theater, 247 College St. 8 p.m. $15-$72. 800-228- 6622. Also on March 19 at 2 and 8 p.m. and March 20 at 2 p.m.

Grease - Waterbury - The one that you want is back! Grease is rockin' in this new production. Take a trip to a time of poodle skirts, drive-ins and T-birds! Palace Theater, 100 E. Main St. 8 p.m. $47-$62. 203-346-2000. Also on March 19 at 2 and 8 p.m.

Saturday, March 19
Construction Club - Newington - Come to the monthly gathering to build projects with LEGO bricks. Lucy Robbins Welles Library, 95 Cedar Street. Ages 7 and up. 1-2:30 p.m. Free. Pre-register. 860-665-8700.

A Night at the Peabody Museum - New Haven - Come after hours - see the museum come alive with games, crafts, scavenger hunts, live animals and more. Yale Peabody Museum, 170 Whitney Ave. 6-9 p.m. $12-$18. RSVP. 203-432-3740.

The Ugly Duckling - Ridgefield - Bits 'N Pieces Puppet Theatre presents the tale of a perky, hot pink Florida flamingo hatched by proper Polar Penguin parents! Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 E. Ridge. 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. $15. 203-438-5795.

Sunday, March 20
Sound Tigers - Bridgeport - Cheer the Sound Tigers on when they play the Binghamton Senators. Webster Bank Arena at Harbor Yard, 600 Main St. 3 p.m. $19.50-$46. 800-745-3000.

Spring Hike - Hamden - A strenuous hike over rough terrain lasting 3-5 hours. For experienced hikers. Dress for the weather and wear hiking books. Bring snacks and water. Sleeping Giant State Park, off Rte. 10. 11 a.m. Free. www.sgpa.org.

Friday, March 25
Arts Festival - Enfield - Enjoy a display of works of art by talented students. Enfield High School, 1264 Enfield Street. 7-9 p.m. Free. 860-668-1818. Also on March 26 from noon-3 p.m.

The Original Connecticut Home and Remodeling Show - Hartford - Features hundreds of the latest products and services for the home by leading exhibitors. CT Convention Center, 100 Columbus Blvd. 5-9 p.m. $10. 860-563-4565. Also on March 26 and 27; times vary.

Faculty Friday Concerts - New Haven - Enjoy A Century of Ragtime during this "musical smorgasbord." NMS Recital Hall, 100 Audubon Street. Free. 7:30 p.m. 203-624-5189.

Insider's Tour of Stone Barns
11 a.m. (Also on Saturday, 11 a.m.)
Stone Barns Center for Food & Agriculture,
630 Bedford Road, Tarrytown, NY
An intimate tour of the farm and greenhouse program.
Not recommended for those younger than 12. Stonebarnscenter.org

"Wonderland!"
7 p.m. (Also on Saturday, 1 p.m. and 7 p.m.)
John Jay Middle School,
40 North Salem Road, Cross River, NY
John Jay theater students perform this musical about a modern day Alice as a newly single mom who's quest for happier times leads her to New York City where she meets. jjms.klschools.org

"Beauty and The Beast"
8 p.m. (Also on Saturday, 2 p.m. and 8 p.m.)
Darien High School,
80 High School Lane, Darien, CT
Darien theater students perform this classic fairy tale about a beautiful girl who meets a man cursed to look like a beast until he finds true love requited. darienps.org/dhs

Saturday, March 26
Touch-A-Truck
9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.
Coleytown Elementary School,
65 Easton Road, Westport, CT
Children and their families have an opportunity to explore a variety of big trucks up close and personal with supervision to ensure their safety. Westportwestoncoop.org/newsandevents.html

Behind-the-Scenes Tour - Norwalk - See how the animal husbandry staff meets the varying food and water needs of the resident animals. Ages 10 and up. The Maritime Aquarium, 10 North Water St. 8:15-10 a.m. $22.50-$32.50. RSVP. 203-852- 0700, ext. 2206.

Thomas and Friends Live! On Stage - Wallingford - Come and see Thomas Saves the Day! Toyota Presents the Oakdale Theatre, 95 South Turnpike Road. 2 and 5 p.m. $28-$57.60. 203-265-1501.

Brass City Ballet Birthday Gala - Waterbury - Enjoy an evening of classics including the original production of Snow White featuring a mix of pop, opera and rock music. Palace Theater, 100 East Main St. 6:30 p.m. $25-$55. 203-346-2000.

Sunday, March 27
Borders of the Mind - Ridgefield - Mentalist Joshua Kane leads audiences through a dazzling demonstration of the power of the mind. Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 2 and 5 p.m. $25. 203-438-5795.

Mindbender Mansion - Hartford - This fun and quirky exhibit gallery is filled with brain teasers and interactive challenges guaranteed to test even the most experienced puzzlers. The Connecticut Science Center, 250 Columbus Boulevard. Tuesday-Sunday from 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Free for members and children 2 and under; $14 for youth; $15.50 for seniors; and $17 for adults. 860-SCIENCE.

Click, Clack, Moo
1 p.m. and 4 p.m.
Westport Country Playhouse,
25 Powers Court, Westport, CT
TheaterWorks USA presents this musical based on the book by Doreen Cronin and Betsy Lewin. Shivering cows type a request for blankets to Farmer Brown via laptop and threaten to go on strike if they don't get blankets. For children prekindergarten
to 4th grade. Westportplayhouse.org

Defining Home Care Options

2011-02-23T16:31:00.000-08:00

As an agency that provides private duty homecare, we found this to be a good explantion of the differnt home care options.

Misunderstanding Home Care
Written By : Angil Tarach-Ritchey

There is so much misunderstanding about homecare that I want to help clarify the misunderstandings. Many refer to homecare as home health or just homecare without ever realizing there are 3 types of homecare. This isn't a just a misunderstanding in the lay community, but there is an enormous lack of understanding among medical professionals and those working in the medical field. Even websites that provide health information can be very wrong in their description of home care. They use home health and homecare interchangeably as if it were one in the same....http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=2050

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A Professional Nanny v. Daycare Center: What is the Best Option?

2011-02-21T11:28:00.000-08:00

We hope you find this useful.

http://www.info.4nannytaxes.com/blog-0/bid/59079/A-Nanny-v-Daycare-Center-What-is-the-Best-Option

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The Sandwich Generation

2011-02-09T09:22:00.000-08:00

The Sandwich Generation- Care for the Caregiver
Written By : Murphy Ortiz

The Sandwich Generation": those caught between caring for their aging parents and their own children. Many Baby Boomers (the generation born between 1946-1961) find themselves a part of this Sandwich Generation. The typical Baby Boomer is a 46 year old female, having some college education, and working full time. This is the typical demographic of the person trying to balance a full time job, caring for elderly parents and caring for their own growing children. It goes without saying that trying to juggle these responsibilities comes at a cost-usually to the caregiver. But who cares for the caregiver?

If you find yourself in this group, it is very important to remember to care of yourself. If you don't, the stress of juggling so many responsibilities will take its toll on you. Remember, you are no good to anyone if you are not taking care of yourself. There are several things you should do to take care of yourself. The first is to eat well. Avoid junk food and simple carbs as they can raise insulin levels and actually increase your stress levels.

Include yourself on the list of people you take care of- make yourself a priority. You can't provide care for others if you let your own health and well-being decline. Taking care of yourself must become a necessity, not an indulgence. Thinking of yourself this way may seem foreign but remember, it's not optional.

Remember to spend time with family and friends. You deserve that time and it can fortify you to continue as an effective caregiver. Many people find themselves spread too thin and when something needs to give, it's usually the time spent with family and friends.

Call upon brothers and/or sisters to share the load. In time, caring for an aging parent can become impossible to do alone, especially if you work full time. Speak with siblings and ask them how they can participate in your parents' care. It's not a burden for only one.

Consider utilizing the services of a home care agency. Affordable in-home care is available to relieve you of some of the daily activities of living. Help is available for assistance with bathing, cooking, cleaning, laundry, errands, and even general companionship. This can be a low cost way to free you up to spend quality time with your aging parents.

Seek the advice of an elder law attorney. This can be money well spent. Make sure wills are drawn up. Consider obtaining any documents required to designate a power of attorney should it become necessary.

The help of a Geriatric Care Manager can be a valuable asset, especially to Boomers who live a long distance from their aging parents. Geriatric Care Managers are professionals that specialize in issues related to seniors. Care managers function as an advocate for their clients through needs assessment, problem solving, care coordination and referrals for other services as needed.

Being the caregiver of an aging loved one is never an easy task, but by making yourself a priority and utilizing the help of others, you can handle the takes healthier and longer.

Murphy Ortiz is the manager of Family Choice Home Care.
www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1199

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Seniors Take to the Internet

2011-01-19T08:12:00.000-08:00

Look Who's Online Now
Written By : Burton Widener

The popular belief that the "net" is reserved for the younger generations may have been true a few years ago, but no more. Survey data shows that more and more older Americans are flocking to the internet and the proliferation of websites dedicated to senior citizens are evidence that they represent an important target audience for online marketers....

All things considered, the internet is a positive experience for the vast majority of seniors. It is remarkable how many old friends reconnect through the net. I know in my case, I have reconnected with several former high school classmates who are scattered across several states from New Hampshire to Arkansas to California

http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1366

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Effort to Restore Children’s Play Gains Momentum

2011-01-07T21:17:00.000-08:00

I read this article in the NYT and found it very interesting. It got me thinking and I thought I would pass it along.

Happy reading!

Effort to Restore Children’s Play Gains Momentum
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/06/garden/06play.html?_r=1&src=me&ref=homepage

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Fitness Programs for Seniors

2011-01-04T09:48:00.000-08:00

Fitness for Seniors - 6 Keys
Written By : Tom Manfredi

The benefits of being physically fit are so numerous that it makes no sense not to attempt to develop a reasonable level of fitness. As we age, keeping fit can become more of a challenge, but the benefits are even more numerous and rewarding. Here are six keys that seniors should keep in mind as they are pursuing a fitness program:
http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1180

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HAPPY NEW YEAR!

2011-01-01T08:01:00.000-08:00

Wee Care Nanny Agency wishes you
and your family a happy, healthy and prospeous 2011!

We thank everyone for helping make our 10th year
in business a success and look
forward to serving you in the New Year.

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Senior Citizens and Computers

2010-12-21T10:44:00.000-08:00

Computers Can Be Magic Carpets
Written By : Raymond Angus

Seniors, computers bring to them the wonders of the entire world. Are you a senior or a boomer? Do you want to visit Australia and pet a koala?

Have you always wanted to study the nesting habits of sea turtles in Florida and watch them deposit their eggs. Maybe you want to tour the ancient coliseum in Rome. Would you like to know if Begonias will grow in your back yard?

Your trusty computer can provide the vehicle to satisfy your desires and you don't even have to leave the house. Punch a few buttons on its keyboard, buckle your seat belt, and get ready for the beginning of an adventure....http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=2732

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Helful Hints for What to do When Kids Fight

2010-12-13T08:26:00.000-08:00

Helpful Hints for Harried Parents
From nanny.com

What To Do When Kids Fight

My neighbor has two sons, grown now into loving, capable young adults. But when they were young, they fought. Of course, when they fought, one or the other would end up going to Mom for relief. Then it would be Mom’s problem to resolve it, to mete out punishment for the guilty party and exonerate the victim. But how was Mom, who hadn’t been there at the beginning of things, to determine the guilty party, or know how guilty each boy may have been? She often had to play the bad guy, and she didn’t like that role at all. Who does? So she did this:
http://www.nanny.com/newsletter_dec-10.php

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Family Fun Events in Connecticut for December 2010

2010-12-02T09:04:00.000-08:00

Wee Care Nanny wishes you and your entire family a happy and healthy Holiday Season. Enjoy!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Base Ball" as Mark Twain Knew It - Fairfield - Enjoy this program on the Gilded Age era of base ball. Fairfield Museum and History Center, 370 Beach Road. 7 p.m. Free-$5. Pre-register. 203-259-1598.

Light the Lights - Danbury - This festival focuses on lighting the big tree. See Santa. Cookies and cider will be served. Library Plaza, 256 Main Street. 5:30-7:30 p.m. 203-792-1711.

Dracula - Wallingford - This adaptation of Bram Stoker's classic tale of horror is action-packed and blood-soaked as Prof. Van Helsing and his comrades hunt down the evil Count Dracula. Ages 4 and under not admitted. Paul Mellon Arts Center, 333 Christian Street. 7:30 p.m. $10-$12. 203-697-2398. Also on Dec. 3 and 4.

Opening Reception - Manchester - Come to the opening of State of the Art, featuring works of 51 children with disabilities. It explores the ways environment and community shape lives. Lutz Children's Museum, 247 S. Main St. 5-6 p.m. Free. 860-643-0949.

A Merry Mulberry Street Musical - Stamford - Take a heart-warming and comical musical romp through the 1944 holiday season when an outcast sister-in-law comes back while the boys in two families are overseas. Dressing Room Theatre, 1349 Newfield Ave. 8 p.m. $14-$28. 203-329-8207. Through December 12; times vary.

Race to Nowhere - Simsbury - A powerful film on high-stakes and high-stress education in America today. The Cobb School, Montessori, 112 Sand Hill Road.Doors open at 6:30 p.m. Doors; 7 p.m. screening. $10 online; $15 at the door. 860-658-1144 or http://www.cobbschool.com/

Friday, December 3rd:

Fairfield Christmas Tree Festival - Fairfield - This festival features designer decorated rooms, custom wreaths, photos with Santa and a Helping Hands for the Holidays children's event. Burr Homestead, 739 Old Post Rd. 10 a.m.-7 p.m. $5-$10. fairfieldchristmastreefestival.org.

Also on Dec. 4 and 5; times vary. Terrific Observatory Visitors' Night - Stamford - View the sky through a 22-inch research telescope, weather permitting. Stamford Museum and Nature Center, 39 Scofieldtown Rd. 8-10 p.m. Free-$3. 203-322-1646, ext. 6521

Holiday Lights on the Trolley - East Haven - Enjoy a cozy heated trolley ride while viewing holiday light displays. Shore Line Trolley Museum, 17 River Street. 6-9 p.m. $4-$8. 203-467-6927. Fridays and Sundays through December 18.

Jazz at Lyman Center - New Haven - Listen to A Peter White Christmas featuring an evening of jazz with Peter White and friends. John Lyman Center for the Performing Arts, 501 Crescent Street. 8 p.m. $32. 203-392-6154.

Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat - Bridgeport - The biblical saga of Joseph and his coat of many colors comes to life on stage. Downtown Cabaret Theater, 263 Golden Hill St. 7:30 p.m. $29.50-$46.50. 203-576-1636. Through 12/19; times vary.

Red Horse - Ridgefield - The new folk super trio features John Gorka, Eliza Gilkyson and Lucy Kaplansky. They cover each other's songs, perform new tunes and breathe life into old classics. Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 8 p.m. $45. 203-438-5795.

Sister's Christmas Catechism - New Haven - In The Mystery of the Magi's Gold, the Sisters retell the story of the nativity in a humorous way. Shubert Theater, 247 College St. 8 p.m. $28-$35. 800-228-6622. Also on Dec. 4 and 5; times vary. Craft Expo -

Hartford - More than 250 craftspeople display and sell their items. Also, food samplings, live music and children's entertainment. CT Expo Center, 265 Reverend Moody Overpass. 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Free-$8. 603-332-2616. Also on 12/4 & 12/5; times vary.

Holiday Express Train Show - Fairfield - See scenic train set layouts from local train clubs. Fairfield Museum and History Center, 370 Beach Rd. Noon- 4 p.m. Free with admission. 203-259-1598. Weekends through 1/2.

Ebeneeza: A Hartford Holiday Carol - Hartford - HartBeat Ensemble tells a local story of Ebeneeza's path to rediscovering humanity. See views of Christmas feasts, Chanukah rituals and Kwanzaa celebrations. Kinsella Magnet School of Performing Arts, 65 Van Block Ave. 7:30 p.m. Free. 860-548-9144. Also on Dec. 4.

LEGO KidsFest - Hartford - See life-size LEGO models all weekend. Visit with Santa, take a ride on the roaming railroad, show off your own LEGO model and more. Connecticut Convention Center, 100 Columbus Blvd. 3-8 p.m. $16-$18. www.legokidsfest.com. Through Dec. 5; times vary.

Saturday, December 4th:

Greenwich Holiday Stroll - Greenwich - Downtown Greenwich comes alive with carolers, musicians and performers. Retailers offer specialty food, drink and holiday cheer. Greenwich Avenue. Free. 10 a.m.-7 p.m. www.Greenwichreindeerfestival.com. Also on Dec. 5 from 11 a.m.-4 p.m.

Toy Boat Making Workshop - Norwalk - Build and decorate a toy sailboat to take home. The Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. $5 plus Aquarium admission. 203-852-0700.

Santa on the Trolley - East Haven - Ride the trolley to visit with Santa. Each child receives a gift. Shore Line Trolley Museum, 17 River Street. 10:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m. $4-$8. 203-467-6927. Weekends through Dec. 19.

Great Trains and Holiday Exhibit - Wilton - See model trains passing through scenic landscapes that are intricately designed. Wilton Historical Society, 224 Danbury Road. 1-4 p.m. Museum admission. 203-762-7257. Through January 16; times vary.

Babes in Toyland - South Norwalk - See all your favorite Mother Goose Land characters sing the famous music of Victor Herbert that will surely delight young audiences and get everyone into the holiday spirit! Crystal Theater, 66 Bayview and Hillside avenues. 3 and 6 p.m. $7-$12. 203-847-4850. Also on Dec. 5.

Holiday Painting & Printing Workshop - Guilford - Learn printing techniques and collage to create greeting cards and wall decorations. For ages 8 and up. Guilford Arts Center, 411 Church Street. 10 a.m.-noon. $27-$30. 203-453-5947.

Family Art Adventures: Rags to Bags - Ridgefield - The hands-on workshop combines environmental education, an introduction to sewing and guided reusable bag making. Aldrich Contemporary Art Museum, 258 Main St. 1-5 p.m. Free with admission. 203-438-4519, ext. 40.

Snow Angel - Fairfield - This new holiday musical is about friendship, hope and dreams when a Snow Angel is chosen to go to Earth, grant a wish and return to the sky. For PreK-grade 3. Edgerton Center, 5151 Park Ave. 7 p.m. $9-$15. 203-371-7908.

Sound Tigers Chanukah Night - Bridgeport - The Sound Tigers offer special Glatt Kosher food during the game against the Providence Bruins. Menorah lighting ceremony during the second intermission. Arena at Harbor Yard, 600 Main St. 8 p.m. $19.50-$46. 800-745-3000.

Friends Holiday Book Sale - Westport - Donated books in pristine condition available at reasonable prices. Includes books, DVDs, CDs and more. Westport Public Library, 20 Jesup Rd. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. 203-291-4800. Also on 12/5 from 1-5 p.m.

Gingerbread House Workshop - Madison - Make a simple gingerbread house out of graham crackers. Ages 5 and up. Scranton Library, 801 Boston Post Road. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. Free. 203-245-8722.

Sunday, December 5th:

Heights & Lights - Stamford - Watch Santa make his daredevil descent from the top of Stamford's tallest office building. Enjoy an evening of holiday fun with music and the tree lighting ceremony. Landmark Square & Latham Park. 4:30 p.m. Free. 203-348-5285.

Santa Train - Danbury - Take a vintage train ride to meet Santa, Mrs. Claus and the elves. Kids get a small gift and do activities. Danbury Railway Museum, 120 White St. 12:30-3:30 p.m. Free-$8. 203-778-8337. Also on Dec. 11-12, 18-19; times vary.

Holiday Hike and Social - Hamden - Hike and discover the beauty of the Giant in winter. Refreshments, carols and warm fire follow the 1 1/2 hour hike. Sleeping Giant State Park, off Route 10. 1:30 p.m. Free. 203-272-7841.

Shirlala: Rock 'n Roll Chanukah Concert - West Hartford - Spend a Chanukah afternoon with Shira Kline who gets everyone rocking! Enjoy a family premiere of Shalom Sesame Chanukah Edition. Mandell JCC, 335 Bloomfield Ave. 1 p.m. $10-$15. 860-236-4571.

Monday, December 6th:

Three Cups of Tea - Hartford - The performance, based on the book by Greg Mortenson, follows an American mountaineer who fulfills a promise to build a school in Pakistan's Karakoram Himalaya. The Bushnell, 166 Capitol Ave. 7 p.m. $33. 860-987-5900. Also on Dec. 7 at 10 a.m. for grades 6-12; $12.

B'nai Jacob Cantor's Chanukah Concert -Woodbridge - This Chanukah concert features the new Connecticut Zimirah Chorale under the direction of Kevin Mack. Congregation B'nai Jacob, 75 Rimmon Road. 4-6 p.m. 203-389-2111.

Tuesday, December 7th:

Cirque Dreams Holidaze - Waterbury - An international cast of acrobats, singers, dancers and musicians fill the stage with holiday favorites. Palace Theater, 100 East Main Street. 7:30 p.m. $47-$62. 203-346-2000. Through December 9.

Science Fun - Westport - The topic for the drop-off activity is Classification. Classify items from nature. For children in grades K-5. Earthplace, 10 Woodside Lane. 4-5:15 p.m. $8-$18. Pre-register. 203-227-7253. Also on December.

Thursday, December 9th:

Holiday with the Twain Family - Bridgeport - Enjoy a presentation on how the Twain family celebrated the holidays. Listen to family memories. Tea, hot cocoa and cookies will be served. Barnum Museum, 820 Main St. 3-4 p.m. Museum admission. 203-331-1104.

Travelers Chorale Holiday Concert - Hartford - I WIsh You Christmas features a program of seasonal favorites, reverent spirituals, Broadway tunes and holiday classics. Bushnell Center for the Performing Arts, 166 Capitol Ave. 7:30 p.m. Free. 860-954-2756.

Eileen Ivers & Immigrant Soul - Ridgefield - Ivers, the nine-time All-Ireland Fiddle Champion, performs An Irish Christmas - a spirited holiday show. Special guest Gray School of Irish Dance. Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 8 p.m. $50. 203-438-5795.

Anime Night - Westport - Meet others who share your passion. Come with ideas, participants determine the event. Bring items from home or browse the library's collection. Westport Public Library, 20 Jesup Rd. 6:30-8:30 p.m. 203-291-4809.

Friday, December 10th:

The Nutcracker - Danbury - The Danbury Symphony Orchestra will be joined by dancers in the staged, costumed production of this holiday favorite. Danbury High School, Clapboard Ridge Rd. 7:30 p.m. $10-$25. 203-748-1716. Also on Dec. 11 and 12; times vary.

Second City Comedy - Ridgefield - Parents will enjoy the 50th Anniversary Tour. See legendary sketch comedy and improvisations. Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 8 p.m. $50. 203-438-5795.

Candlelight Tour - Fairfield - Celebrate the holidays and see life during the mid-18th century. Holiday refreshments. Ogden House, 1520 Bronson Road. 4:30-7:30 p.m. $3. 203-259-1598

Saturday, December 11th:

Barnum Holiday Fest & Gingerbread Contest - Bridgeport - Celebrate the season with crafts, caroling and cookies. Barnum Museum, 820 Main Street. 1-3 p.m. Museum admission. 203-331-1104.

The Nutcracker - Stamford - Connecticut Ballet presents Brett Raphael's production of The Nutcracker to light up the holiday season. The Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic Street. 2 and 7 p.m. $25-$45. 203-325-4466. Also on December 12 at 1 and 4 p.m.

Noel! Noel! Holiday Concert - East Hartford - CitySingers of Hartford present beautiful carols and motets to celebrate the season. South Congregational Church, 1301 Forbes Street. 4-6 p.m. Free-$8. 860-568-5150.

Holiday Spectacular - Ridgefield - Tony Award-winner Debbie Gravitte performs in this holiday production that showcases local and regional talent. The Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 2 and 6 p.m. $20-$25. 203-438-5795.

CSI Hartford - Hartford - Families can experience the world of crime scene investigation and enter the world of forensics technology with hands-on activities. Ages 8 and up. CT Science Center, 250 Columbus Blvd. 10 a.m. $10-$15. RSVP. 860-520-2150.

Wondrous Tales - Bridgeport - The Greater Bridgeport Symphony celebrates the holidays with classic works, plus Christmas and Chanukah tunes and a sing-along. The Klein, 910 Fairfield Ave. 8 p.m. $24-$58. 203-576-0263.

The United States Air Force Band of Liberty - New Haven - A holiday concert from one of the 10 Air Force Bands nationwide. John Lyman Center for the Performing Arts, 501 Crescent St. 7 p.m. Free. Visit http://tickets.southernct.edu to order tickets.

A Visit to Santa's House - Fairfield - Meet Santa and see Mrs. Claus baking cookies. Enjoy crafts, tattoos and face painting, live entertainment, model trains, costumed characters and more. Burr Homestead, 739 Old Post Rd. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. $6. www.jwcfairfield.com. Also on 12/12, 10 a.m.-2 p.m.

Sunday, December 12th:

Winter Creature Cruises - Norwalk - Journey onto Long Island Sound and see seals that spend the winter just off the shore. Educators discuss their histories. For ages 8 and up. Maritime Aquarium, 10 North Water St. 9:30 a.m. $18-$20.50. 203-852-0700.

Victorian Holiday Open House - Norwalk - Have an old-fashioned community celebration with traditional decorations, musical performances, hot cocoa and treats. Kids can take a photo with Santa. Lockwood-Mathews Mansion, 295 West Ave. Noon-4 p.m. Free. 203-838-9799.

Family Day - Greenwich - Enjoy performances by Joe Gladwin and his Paperplays Puppet Theater. Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Drive. 2 and 4 p.m. Museum admission. 203-413-6740.

Musica Plenti - Greenwich - Musica Plenti will usher in the Winter Solstice with a concert encompassing a wide range of seasonal music. Audubon Greenwich, 613 Riversville Rd. 3 p.m. 203-637-3058.

Monday, December 13th:

Astronomy Nights: Telescopes - Stamford - Learn the basics of buying a telescope and then view the night sky through the 22-inch telescope. For ages 5 and up. Stamford Museum and Nature Center, 39 Scofieldtown Rd. 7 p.m. Free-$3. 203-322-1646, ext. 6521.

Tuesday, December 14th:

All About It - Westport - The topic is All About Squirrels. Discover how they survive the change of seasons, where they have their food stored and how they stay warm. For Pre-K. Earthplace, 10 Woodside Lane. 4-5 p.m. $8-$18. Pre-register. 203-227-7253.

A Reading of Night Before Christmas - Bridgeport - Surrounded by Victorian charm, Sonya Finch will read Clement Clarke Moore's holiday tale, Night Before Christmas. Barnum Museum, 820 Main St. 11-11:45 a.m. Museum admission. 203-331-1104.

Christmas Storytime - Madison - Celebrate the Christmas season with stories, music, crafts and refreshments. Scranton Library, 801 Boston Post Road. 11 a.m. Free. 203-245-8722.

Wednesday, December 15th:

Girls Club: Holiday with Felicity - Fairfield - Celebrate colonial holiday traditions with Felicity. Warm up with mulled cider and make orange pomander balls. Grades 3-5. Fairfield Museum and History Center, 370 Beach Rd. 4:30 p.m. $10-$15. RSVP. 203-259-1598.

Healthy Holiday Cooking - Ridgefield - Parents can watch Chef Jehan de Noue present a cooking demo showing how to make favorite holiday foods healthy. Also, a wine tasting and a gift boutique. Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 7 p.m. $10. 203-438-5795.

Holidays with Family - Greenwich - The La Leche League of Greenwich/Stamford presents this mother-to-mother discussion on breastfeeding. St. Paul's Lutheran Church, 286 Delavan Avenue. 10-11:30 a.m. Free. 203-869-5344.

Reindeer Party - Madison - Celebrate the holidays with crafts, music, stories and refreshments. For preschool age to grade 2. Scranton Library, 801 Boston Post Rd. 7-8 p.m. Free. 203-245-8722.

Thursday, December 16th:

Celebrate the Season Gallery Talk - Bridgeport - Tour the Celebrate the Season exhibit and explore how the holiday celebration began in 1850. Barnum Museum, 820 Main St. 11 a.m. and 6 p.m. Museum admission. 203-331-1104. Also on Dec. 21 at 11 a.m.

The Nutcracker - West Hartford - Ballet Theatre Company presents this production with a cast of professional NY based dancers and 70 children from Greater Hartford. Hoffman Auditorium, St. Joseph College, 1678 Asylum Ave. 6:30 p.m. $20-$30. 860-570-0440. Through December 19; times vary.

Friday, December 17th:

Give My Regards to Broadway - Fairfield - Enjoy Broadway greats sing music from their Broadway shows and animated movies. Featuring Liz Callaway, Mary Testa and Jason Graae. Edgerton Center for the Performing Arts, 5151 Park Ave. 8 p.m. $15-$20. 203-371-7908.

Ebeneeza: A Hartford Holiday Carol - Hartford - HartBeat Ensemble tells a local story of Ebeneeza's path to rediscovering humanity. See views of Christmas feasts, Chanukah rituals and Kwanzaa celebrations. Mark Twain House, 351 Farmington Ave. 7:30 p.m. Free. 860-548-9144. Through December 19; times vary.

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever! - Hartford - Hartford Children's Theatre presents a fun holiday adventure. See what happens when kids with the worst behavior want to be in the Christmas Pageant. The Carriage House Theatre, 360 Farmington Avenue. 7 p.m. $5-$10. 860-249-7970. Also on Dec. 18 at 10 a.m. and 2 p.m.

Saturday, December 18th:

Holiday Extravaganza - Fairfield - The New Haven Symphony Orchestra celebrates the season with a blend of holiday favorites. Quick Center for the Arts, 200 Barlow Road. 8 p.m. $35-$40. 203-254-4010.

Breakfast and a Movie - Trumbull - See Yogi Bear and enjoy a holiday celebration with The CHAIN Fund! Marquis 16 Bow Tie Cinemas, 100 Quarry Road. Breakfast served at 8:30 a.m.; Movie starts at 10 a.m. $22. 203-606-4003 or http://www.breakfastandamovie.com/.

Candy House Workshop - Fairfield - Learn how to make candy houses. Fairfield Museum and History Center, 370 Beach Road. 1-3:30 p.m. $15-$20. Pre-register. 203-259-1598.

Silhouettes - Wilton - Deborah O'Connor will work her magic with scissors and paper to create the perfect Christmas gift. Wilton Historical Society, 224 Danbury Road. 1-4 p.m. 203-762-7257.

Holiday Gift Giving Crafts - Guilford - Decorate a jewelry box, sew a scented sachet and design a beaded necklace. Ages 7 and up. Guilford Arts Center, 411 Church St. 2-4:30 p.m. $36-$40 plus $5 fee. 203-453-5947.

The Nutcracker - Hartford - The Nutmeg Ballet returns with this holiday classic. Travel with Clara to the enchanted Land of Sweets. The Bushnell, 166 Capitol Avenue. 11:30 a.m. and 3:30 p.m. $33-$52. 860-987-5900. Also on December 19.

Rob Mathes Christmas Concert - Stamford - The Grammy and Emmy nominated musician returns with his amazing all-star band for the annual Christmas concert. The Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic Street. 8 p.m. $35-$55. 203-325-4466.

Holiday POPS! Spectacular - Hartford - The Hartford Symphony Orchestra is joined by Tessa Romano, soprano, The Hartford Chorale and The Connecticut Children's Chorus. The Bushnell, 166 Capitol Ave. 3 and 8 p.m. $30-$62. 860-244-2999.

The Nutcracker - Ridgefield - The Ridgefield Conservatory of Dance captures all the wonder and joy of the season with their costumes and dazzling choreography. The Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 2 and 6 p.m. $25. 203-438-5795. Also on Dec. 19 at 2 p.m.

Family Drop-In Weekend - Ridgefield - Enjoy self-guided, hands-on projects for all ages levels. Children must be accompanied by an adult. Aldrich Contemporary Art Museum, 258 Main St. Noon-5 p.m. Free with admission. 203-438-4519, ext. 40. Also on 12/19.

A Ceremony of Carols - New Haven - Etherea Vocal Ensemble performs songs by John Rutter and traditional carols. St. Thomas's Episcopal Church, 830 Whitney Avenue. 5 p.m. $10-$15 ($30/families). http://www.stthomasnewhaven.org/.

The Nutcracker Fable - Norwalk - Children learn about Princess Pirlipat, the Queen of Mice and how Nutcrackers came to be and why they look the way they do. Stepping Stones Museum for Children, 303 West Ave. 2 p.m. Museum admission. 203-899-0606.

Sunday, December 19th:

A Christmas Carol - Fairfield - Theatreworks/USA presents a musical based on the story by Charles Dickens, capturing both the humorous and touching moments of the classic story. Quick Center for the Arts, 200 Barlow Road. 1 and 3 p.m. $12-$15. 203-254-4010.

A Christmas Carol Character Breakfast - West Hartford - Join your favorite characters from A Christmas Carol for brunch. Pond House Cafe, 1555 Asylum Ave. 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. $14-$18. 860-231-8823.

Robo Sunday - West Hartford - Visit with the 12-foot tall, 800 pound security robot and take turns at his controls. The Children's Museum, 950 Trout Brook Dr. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Free-$11. 860-231-2824.

Monday, December 20th:

The North Pole Comes to Stepping Stones - Norwalk - Enjoy a visit with holiday characters including Frosty the Snowman, the Gingerbread Man, Santa and Father Frost. Stepping Stones Museum for Children, 303 West Ave. 11 a.m. Museum admission. 203-899-0606. Through December 23; times vary.

Friday, December 24th:

A Christmas Carol - Hartford - Scrooge, Tiny Tim and the Ghosts of Christmas Past, Present and Future return in Dickens' holiday classic. Hartford Stage, 50 Church Street. 7:30 p.m. $10-$65. 860-527-5151. Through December 30; times vary.

Monday, December 27th:

Behind-the-Scenes Tour - Norwalk - See how the animal husbandry staff meets the varying food and water needs of the resident animals. Ages 10 and up. The Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St. 8:15-10 a.m. $20-$30. RSVP. 203-852-0700, ext. 2206.

LEGO Challenge - Windsor Locks - KIds ages 3-12 can participate in a LEGO contest. New England Air Museum, 36 Perimeter Road. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Free-$10. 860-623-3305.

Celebrate Poland - Norwalk - Become a Polish musician by crafting a traditional longhorn. Stepping Stones Museum for Children, 303 West Ave. 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Museum admission. 203-899-0606.

Wednesday, December 29th:

Scavenger Hunt - Fairfield - Ages 5-12 will learn about local players and teams, baseball science and more by answering a series of challenging questions. Fairfield Museum and History Center, 370 Beach Rd. 2 p.m. Free with admission. 203-259-1598.

Gregg Allman - Stamford - Enjoy the Rock 'n Roll Hall of Famer who is a natural artist, gifted with a beautiful voice and brilliant keyboard and guitar expertise. The Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic Street. 7:30 p.m. $40-$60. 203-325-4466.

Spamalot - New Haven - Monty Python's Spamalot tells the tale of King Arthur and his Knights of the Round Table as they embark on their quest for the Holy Grail. Shubert Theater, 247 College Street. 7:30 p.m. $15-$75. 800-228-6622. Through January 2; times vary.

Around the World - Norwalk - Listen to the classic Polish fairy tale The Three Princesses of Whiteland. Stepping Stones Museum for Children, 303 West Ave. 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Museum admission. 203-899-0606.

Friday, December 31st:

Amazing Andy - Bridgeport - Enjoy a performance by Amazing Andy to help ring in the New Year. Barnum Museum, 820 Main Street. 11 a.m. Free with museum admission. 203-331-1104.

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Tips for Helping Seniors Learn the Computer

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Teaching Seniors Computers - 10 Tips
Written By : Michael Gorzka

I've been teaching library computer classes since 1997. Here are my top 10 tips for teaching seniors how to use a computer.

1) State the goals of the class before you begin instructing. People will come into a class with different skill levels. Advanced students will often work ahead or surf the web if the class material is too basic for them. This can distract you and other people in the class.
After everyone in the class has been seated, I introduce myself and then say something like: "Just to make sure we're all on the same page here, this the Introduction to Email Class". In this class we cover thevery basics of sending and receiving email messages. Is that why we're all here?"
2) Use real life parallels whenever possible....http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=2733

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Connecticut Events Calendar in November for the Entire Family

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Thursday, 11/11/10

Our Great Education Challenge - Hartford - A panel discussion with Chancellor of NYC Public Schools, Joel Klein and Davis Guggenheim director of Waiting for Superman, which explores the ways American public education fails children. The Bushnell, 166 Capitol Ave. 8 p.m. $25-$60. 860-987-5900.Brian Regan -

Multicultural Trip Around the World - Guilford - Chris Merwin will take you on a trip around the world through music and imagination. For children ages 4 and up. Guilford Free Library, 67 Park Street. 2:30-3:15 p.m. Free. 203-453-8282.

Rusted Root & Assembly of Dust - Ridgefield - Rusted Root performs roots music and world rock while Assembly of Dust is known for their rich-country accented melodies. Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 8 p.m. $55. 203-438-5795.

Friday, 11/12/10

Owl Prowl - Stamford - Spend an evening searching for these creatures of the night. Have a hoot of a time! Bring a flashlight. For ages 5 and up. Stamford Museum and Nature Center, 39 Scofieldtown Rd. 7-8:30 p.m. $5-$8. Pre-register

Annie - Stamford - The timeless tale of Little Orphan Annie is back, giving a new generation the chance to experience this musical about never giving up hope. Kweskin Theatre, 1349 Newfield Ave. 7:30 p.m. $14-$28. 203-329-8207. Through Dec. 18.

Winterfair Holiday Gift Market - Stamford - Vendors offer a variety of unique merchandise. Also face painting for children and more. Stamford Marriott & Spa, 243 Tresser Blvd. 10 a.m.-7 p.m. Free-$5. winterfair@jlsn.org. Also on Nov. 13 from 9 a.m.-4 p.m.

Seeds Galore - Madison - Learn about different kinds of seeds and the ways that nature makes sure they get planted to grow next year. Make a collage and go on a scavenger hunt. Ages 3-5 with an adult. Bauer Park, Copse Road. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. $8. 203-245-5623.

Saturday, 11/13/10

Yale Football - West Haven - Watch the Yale Bulldogs take on Princeton. Yale Bowl, Derby Avenue. Noon. Free-$8. 203-432-1400.

Visions of Gingerbread Tea Party - Stamford - Decorate your own gingerbread boy or girl. Tea, sandwiches and sweets served. Hear stories and bring a favorite doll or stuffed animal. Stamford Museum and Nature Center, 39 Scofieldtown Rd. 2 p.m. $45-$55. RSVP. 203-322-1646, ext. 6521.

Family-Friendly Bird Count - Greenwich - Learn about watching and feeding winter birds and how your family can be Citizen Scientists. Audubon Greenwich, 613 Riversville Road. 1-2:30 p.m. $1.50-$5. RSVP. 203-869-5272, ext. 230.

Harry Potter Movies - Westport - Watch Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince. Westport Public Library, 20 Jesup Road. 2 p.m. Free. 203-291-4800.

Circus For a Fragile Planet - Hartford - ARTFARM presents a circus with juggling, clowning, physical comedy, acrobatics, unicycling and more built around an environmental message. Mark Twain House, 351 Farmington Ave. 11 a.m. $5-$10. 860-280-3130.

Festival of Lighthouses - Norwalk - Handcrafted lighthouses will be placed throughout the aquarium and visitors can cast a vote for their favorite. The Maritime Aquarium, 10 North Water St. Aquarium hours and admission. 203-852-0700. Through Jan. 17.

Frosty the Snowman - Bridgeport - This children's winter story has a feel good spirit that's a holiday favorite. Downtown Cabaret Theater, 263 Golden Hill Street. Noon and 2:30 p.m. $15.50. 203-576-1636. Saturdays and Sundays through January 5.

Family & Friends Fun Day - Hartford - Learn ways to reduce, reuse, recycle, recover and rethink to care for the environment. Kids' activities and more. The Trash Museum, 211 Murphy Rd. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Free. 860-757-7765.

Fall Family Fun Concert - Westport - A morning full of fun, movement and original song featuring beloved children's performer Amy Rogell. Christ & Holy Trinity Episcopal Church Day School, 45 Church Lane. 10:30-11:30 a.m. $15; under 2 free. 203-226-4616.

Lantern Walk - Newtown - Parents and children age 2-6 years-old will construct a simple, colorful lantern; experience a puppet play, sing songs, and carrying their lighted lanterns outside into dusk in a magical procession. Housatonic Valley Waldorf School, 40 Dodgingtown Road. 4 p.m. Donation $5. 203.364.9881.

Sunday, 11/14/10

Berenstain Bears in Family Matters: The Musical - Fairfield - This new musical weaves together three of Stan and Jan Berenstain's most popular books. For grades preK- 3. Quick Center for the Arts, 200 Barlow Road. 1 and 3 p.m. $12-$15. 203-254-4010.

Paleo-Knowledge Bowl - New Haven - Teams of students in grades 4-6 will answer questions about paleontology - especially dinosaurs. Peabody Museum, 170 Whitney Avenue. 2:30 p.m. $5-$7. 203-432-5050.

Richard Shindell - Fairfield - This true American folk storyteller weaves stories out of cleverly invented characters. Stage One, 70 Sanford Street. 7:30 p.m. $32. 203-259-1036.

Glitzy Mirrors - New Haven - Use acrylic paint, paint pens, glitter, charms and "gems" to make unique and whimsical mirrors. Ages 6 and up. Creative Arts Workshop, 80 Audubon Street. 2-4 p.m. $23-$26. 203-562-4927.

Monday, 11/15/10

Monday Night Movies - Guilford - Watch The Cove about the unseen hunt for dolphins in Japan. Rated PG-13. Refreshments and discussion precede and follow the film. Guilford Free Library, 67 Park Street. 7-9 p.m. Free. 203-453-8282.

Tuesday, 11/16/10

Wii Games! - New Haven - Kids, ages 12-18, can play Wii games! Stetson Library, 200 Dixwell Avenue. 2:30-3:30 p.m. Free. 203-946-8130, ext. 234.

Harry Potter Movie Marathon - Guilford - All ages are welcome to watch Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix. Beverages provided. Guilford Free Library, 67 Park Street. 6:30 p.m. Free. 203-453-8282.

The Littlest Pilgrims - Ridgefield - This musical is based on the voyage of the first Pilgrims to the new world as seen through the eyes of two young children. For grades 1-3. Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. $10. 203-438-5795.

Wednesday, 11/17/10

Turkey Talk - Fairfield - The Afternoon Adventure drop-in program includes a story and a walk to explore the sanctuary. All ages; children must be with an adult.

Birdcraft Museum, 314 Unquowa Rd. 4-4:30 p.m. Free, donations appreciated. 203-259-0416.

Holiday Tours - Hartford - Tour the house that's decorated with gifts and garlands, a Victorian Christmas tree and more. Mark Twain House, 351 Farmington Ave. Museum hours and admission. 860-247-0998.

Preschool Art & Nature Adventures - Farmington - Children ages 4-7 will explore a piece of the museum's art collection through stories, hikes and other activities. Hill-Stead Museum, 35 Mountain Road. 10-11 a.m. $8-$13. Pre-register. 860-677-4787, ext. 142.

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Finding a Nanny Agency

2010-11-02T06:50:00.000-07:00

We thought we would re post this article from nanny.com because we believe it offers some good advice on how to select a nanny agency. We hope this helps.

Finding A Nanny Agency

A good nanny agency can be brand new or decades old, a one-person operation or a thoroughly staffed office. But the basic mission of all agencies is to recruit nannies and families, and to match one to the other for a fee. The modern nanny placement service (in which the family, not the nanny, pays the placement fee) developed in the 1980’s when Boomer babies became working moms.

In 1985 a few nanny agency owners and experienced nannies met to create the International Nanny Association. INA set this country’s first standards for nanny placement and continues to monitor the nanny industry. Families can order INA materials, including the INA Directory of nanny agencies and nanny schools. Although agency membership in INA often indicates adherence to INA standards, it is not a guarantee.

Advantages of Using Nanny Agencies
-A good nanny agency saves time for both nanny and family. It has tested procedures for recruiting, advertising, screening, and counseling, and policies regarding both placement and refunds.

-It has an established reputation based on previous nanny placements, which in turn draws additional nannies and families into its register improving the choices for all.

-A good nanny agency treats nanny and family as equals. Both are its clients, for without one it will not have the other.

-A good nanny agency provides a solid nanny/family contract.

A good nanny agency stands behind its placements and impartially counsels both parties in case of on-the-job conflict.

-A good nanny agency monitors the success of its nanny placements and may even offer workshops and get-togethers that support both nanny and family.

-Experience with a good nanny agency is probably the best possible introduction to the placement process: when a nanny has fulfilled her commitment to a good agency placement, the experience – awareness of screening procedures and of the many hitches along the way – will help both nanny and family in the next go-around.

-A good nanny agency is known by its customer service, the caliber of the nannies and families it serves, and the frequent long-term success of its placements.

Article continued here...http://www.nanny.com/agencies.php

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Popular Activities for Seniors

2010-10-28T09:33:00.000-07:00

Feeling Sporty? Popular Activities for Seniors
Written By : SeniorsList

If you feel like you need to get out more, you’re not alone. Senior citizens and non-seniors alike are in need of consistent physical exercise. Sporty activities are an enjoyable way to get your body moving, but not all forms are best for senior citizens. Seek out those sports that you enjoy and that exert your body to a comfortable degree. Here are some of the top ranked sports for the active senior:
http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1173

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Keeping Grandparents Active with

2010-10-06T09:45:00.000-07:00

Grandparenting and Technology
Written By : Brad Percival

Many children grow up and move away from their parents and have children of their own leaving the grand parents to become long-distance grandparents. Grand parenting long-distance can be a struggle at first but as you become more agreeable with the idea of bonding with your grandchildren through other means, it will become easier on both you and the grandchildren. Best of all, the experience can still be absolutely wonderful.

With today's technology grandparents can video conference with their grandchildren, asking them how their day was, who they play with and what is going on in their lives - where in the old days it was a letter once a week that took another week to return. There are also instant photographs through the Internet so that grandma or grandpa can see exactly how big their grandchildren are growing on a daily basis. Even small children can benefit from videoconferencing with grandma and grandpa, that way when they come to visit, the child will know who they are and remember them from the videoconferencing. Videoconferencing over the internet is practically free - with just minimal equipment costs.

It's important for grandparents to have a bond with their grandchildren early on especially when they live far away from one another. The exchanging of pictures through the Internet, e-mails and phone calls all help to strengthen the bonds of grandparents and grandchildren. As the children get older they will be able to e-mail or make phone calls on their own to their grandparents.

A parent doesn't have to get a child their own computer or cell phone in order to allow them to keep them in touch with their grandparents. The family computer or the regular phone will do for all the children. Yet, a few basic pieces of computer equipment like: an internet connected PC and a basic web camera on the part of the grandparents and the kids will keep everyone seamlessly in touch.

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Connecticut Events Calendar in October for the Entire Family

2010-10-04T12:05:00.000-07:00

FRIDAY October 15, 2010

The Music of Simon & Garfunkel - Bridgeport - A.J. Swearingen and Jonathan Beedle re-create the memories of the classic hits of Simon & Garfunkel. Downtown Cabaret Theater, 263 Golden Hill St. 7:30 p.m. $26.50-$29.50. 203-576-1636. Through 10/17; times vary.

We The People - Waterbury - TheatreworksUSA presents an all-new musical revue that brings American civics lessons to life and makes social studies exciting. For grades 4-8. Palace Theater, 100 East Main Street. 9:30 and 11:30 a.m. $8. 203-346-2000.

To Kill a Mockingbird - Stamford - The story is a tender portrait of a southern town, brimming with powerful lessons of tolerance, justice and quiet heroism. Dressing Room Theatre, 1349 Newfield Ave. 8 p.m. $14-$28. 203-329-8207. Through Oct. 31; times vary.

SistaAct - Norwalk - This uproarious musical comedy involves the nuns as they try to hide a lounge singer from the mob. Carriage House Arts Center, Cranbury Park, 390 Grumman Ave. 8 p.m. $15-$20. 203-229-9797. Through Oct. 30; days and times vary.

Family Campfire - Westport - Enjoy lively music and sing-along songs, toast marshmallows for s'mores and more. Bring a blanket or chair. Children must be accompanied by an adult. Earthplace, 10 Woodside Lane. 7-8:30 p.m. $8-$10. Pre-register. 203-227-7253.

SATURDAY 10/16
Family Wii Day - Westport - Spend the afternoon playing Wii on the big screen in the library. All ages. Westport Public Library, 20 Jesup Road. 2-4 p.m. Free. 203-291-4809.

Pumpkin Patch - East Haven - Ride a vintage trolley to the patch where each child can select a little pumpkin to decorate. See train layouts and more. Shore Line Trolley Museum, 17 River Street. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. $5-$8. 203-467-6927. Also on Oct. 17, 23 and 24.

Haunted Hayrides - Shelton - Tour a haunted farm on hay wagons for a creepy 1-1/2 mile ride through spookified trails. No reservations necessary. Fairview Tree Farm, 486 Walnut Tree Hill. Continuous rides from 7-10 p.m. $11. 203-944-9090. Also on October 22, 23, 29 and 30.

Yale Football - West Haven - Watch the Yale Bulldogs take on Fordham. Yale Bowl, Derby Avenue. Noon. Free-$8. 203-432-1400.

Family Drop in Weekend - Ridgefield - Enjoy self-guided, hands-on projects for all ages levels. Children must be accompanied by an adult. Aldrich Contemporary Art Museum, 258 Main St. Noon-5 p.m. Free with admission. 203-438-4519, ext. 40. Also on October 17.

Greater Bridgeport Symphony - Bridgeport - Anita Chen, violin and piano 2007 Carlson-Horn Competition winner, joins the symphony performing works by Rossini, Mozart and Liszt. Klein Auditorium, 910 Fairfield Avenue. 8 p.m. $24-$58. 203-576-0263.

Happy, Healthy Hip Family Fair - Greenwich - Enjoy live entertainment, food, vendors and a car seat check. Presented by Fairfield County Attachment Parenting Group. Old Greenwich Civic Center, 90 Harding Road. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Free. 631-848-8545.

Welcome To Our House Tour - Hartford - Take a living history tour of Stowe's home given by an interpreter portraying Stowe's daughter, a hostess with many family stories to tell. Harriet Beecher Stowe Center, 77 Forest St. 11 a.m. $8-$11. 860-522-9258, ext. 317.

VOCE - Hartford - Enjoy the melodic sounds of VOCE, a singing group that combines excellence in music with service to the community. The concert features a Mark Twain theme. Immanuel Congregational Church, 360 Farmington Avenue. 860-247-0998.

Harvest Fair - West Hartford - Pick out the perfect pumpkin, enjoy fun events for children of all ages, shop for antiques, white elephant booth, holiday shopping and more. United Methodist Church, 1358 New Britain Avenue. 9 a.m.-2 p.m. Free. 860-521-7766.

Stamford Symphony Orchestra - Stamford - The orchestra will perform Beethoven's "Symphony Number 5," along with works by Brahms and Prokofiev. Palace Theater, 61 Atlantic Street. 8 p.m. $29-$79. 203-325-4466. Also on October 17 at 3 p.m.

Behind-the-Scenes Tour - Norwalk - See how the animal husbandry staff meets the varying food and water needs of the resident animals. Ages 10 and up. The Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St. 8:15-10 a.m. $20-$30. RSVP. 203-852-0700, ext. 2206.

Wolf Day - Westport - Learn about wolves, listen to stories and make a craft. Earthplace, 10 Woodside Lane. 1:30-3:30 p.m. Free with admission. 203-227-7253.

SUNDAY 10/17
Charlotte's Web - Fairfield - Theatreworks/USA presents this beloved story about the friendship between a pig named Wilbur and a little gray spider named Charlotte. Quick Center for the Arts, 200 Barlow Road. 1 and 3 p.m. $12-$15. 203-254-4010.

A Walk on the Wild Side - Farmington - See lesser utilized parts of the trail system. Venture onto the Metacomet Trail. Hill-Stead Museum, 35 Mountain Rd. 2 p.m. Free-$3. 860-677-4787.
Harvest Festival - Stamford - Enjoy hayrides, apple cidering demos and fun activities for the whole family. Wear a costume and have some Halloween treats. Stamford Museum and Nature Center, 39 Scofieldtown Road. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Free-$10. 203-977-6521.

Combustion Sunday - West Hartford - Meet firefighters, see a fire engine, watch demonstrations on the chemistry of cumbustion, and learn about fire safety. The Children's Museum, 950 Trout Brook Ave. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Museum admission. 860-231-2824.

The Hammersteins: A Musical Theatre Family - Ridgefield - Author Oscar Andy Hammerstein talks about his new book, reads passages and signs copies. Aldrich Contemporary Art Museum, 258 Main St. 3-5 p.m. Museum admission. 203-438-4519., ext. 26.

Eric Johnson, Andy McKee and Peppino D'Agostino - Ridgefield - Three innovators in the world of guitar come together to create an evening of unforgettable music. Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 8 p.m. $45. 203-438-5795.

Chamber Players - Greenwich - The Chamber Players of the Greenwich Symphony perform works by Debussy, Shostakovich, Reinecke, Villa Lobos and Barber. Round Hill Community Church, 395 Round Hill Road. 4 p.m. $5-$25. 203-869-2664.

Walk in the Park for Abilis - Old Greenwich - Fifth annual fundraiser to support Abilis and people of all ages with autism. Greenwich Point Park (Tod's Point). Register and activities at 10:30 a.m.; Walk at noon. Donations. 203-531-1880, ext. 110.

MONDAY 10/18
Chamber Players - Greenwich - The Chamber Players of the Greenwich Symphony performs works by Debussy, Shostakovich, Reinecke, Villa Lobos and Barber. Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Drive. 8 p.m. $5-$25. 203-869-2664.

Shadow Ball in Jasper's Town - Fairfield - Beautiful paintings of baseball's Negro League players will be on display. A great opportunity for kids to learn about sports history. Lukacs Gallery, Quick Center for the Arts, 200 Barlow Road. 1-8 p.m. Free. Through October 25; days and times vary.

TUESDAY 10/19
Little Movies, Big Heart - Newington - Watch The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio, a story about a woman who helped support her family in the '50s by winning jingle contests. Rated PG-13. Lucy Robbins Welles Library, 95 Cedar St. 6:30-8:30 p.m. Free. 860-665-8700.

Green Earth Series Lecture - Westport - Mitchell Lester, M.D. will discuss "The Effect of the Climate and the Environment on Health." Earthplace, 10 Woodside Lane. 7:30 p.m. Free. Pre-register. 203-227-7253.

WEDNESDAY 10/20
Pre-K Storytime - Fairfield - Grandparents can bring their grandchildren for a stoytime focusing on baseball, sports, heroes and teamwork. Fairfield Museum and History Center, 370 Beach Road. 10 a.m. Museum admission. 203-259-1598.

Preschool Art & Nature Adventures - Farmington - Children ages 4-7 will explore a piece of the museum's art collection through stories, hikes and other activities. Hill-Stead Museum, 35 Mountain Rd. 10-11 a.m. $8-$12. Pre-register. 860-677-4787, ext. 142.

Haunted Baseball & Field of Screams - Fairfield - Listen to ghostly stories when Dan Gordon explores the spooky connection between baseball and the paranormal. Fairfield Museum and History Center, 370 Beach Rd. 7 p.m. $5-$8. RSVP. 203-259-1598.

THURSDAY 10/21
New Haven Symphony Orchestra - New Haven - Experience the Italian flair of guest conductor Aldo Sisillo through works by Martucci, Schumann and Brahms. Woolsey Hall, 500 College Street. 7:30 p.m. $10-$65. 203-865-0831, ext. 10.

Full Moon Campfire and Night Hike - New Haven - Experience the sights and sounds of the nocturnal forest under a glorious autumn moon. Ages 6 and up. Bring flashlight. Common Ground, 358 Springside Ave. 6-8 p.m. Free. 203-389-4333, ext. 1213.

Zing Zang Zoom - Bridgeport - Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Baily present a soaring extravaganza with a magical twist! Arena at Harbor Yard, 600 Main St. 7:30 p.m. $15.25-$95.25. 800-745-3000. Through Oct. 24; times vary.

Saturday 10/23
Children's Book Sale - Norwalk - Be the first to find books at this children's books sale. Sunday is 50 % off day; Monday is $3/bag day; and Tuesday is free day. Norwalk Public Library, 1 Belden Ave. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. 203-899-2780, ext. 131. Through Oct. 26; times vary.

American Girl Fashion Show - Darien - Celebrate being a girl with a presentation on historical and contemporary fashions. Ages 4 and up. Country Club of Darien, 300 Mansfield Ave. 10 a.m. and 3 p.m. $45. 203-554-6907. Also on Oct. 24.

Yale Football - West Haven - Watch the Yale Bulldogs take on Penn. Yale Bowl, Derby Avenue. Noon. Free-$8. 203-432-1400.

Greenwich Cardinals' Home Coming-Greenwich-11 a.m. Homecoming parade down Greenwich Avenue 2 p.m. Cardinals' Homecoming football game vs. Bridgeport Central, featuring cheerleaders, marching band and dance team.

Sunday 10/24
Fall Foliage Family Frolic - Stamford - This 2-3 mile hike is geared for families with small children. Bring a brown-bag lunch to enjoy at a special spot. Stamford Museum and Nature Center, 39 Scofieldtown Road. 11 a.m. Museum admission. 203-322-1646.

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Excercises for Seniors with Arthritis

2010-09-30T08:05:00.000-07:00

7 Exercises for Arthritis
Written By : Cristian Stan

You seem to be restless all day and feel terrible pain during nighttime. It seems endless, the cycle of pain and immobility, not having the means to do the things you used to do and the stress and boredom that go with it. When you are tormented by the pain of arthritis, you most likely would long for some rest rather than exercise which seems to be exhausting and painful altogether.

It is a mistaken notion that exercise can further damage your joints. On the other hand, doing moderate exercises have shown significant impact in the overall well-being of patients suffering from arthritis. Patients should of course refrain from doing high-impact exercises as this may aggravate their condition. There are, however, a variety of low-impact or moderate exercises that have shown incredible benefits such as reduction of joint pain and the strengthening of muscles around the affected joint. It has also improved overall health and fitness by creating a healthy self-esteem, reducing depressive symptoms, controlling obesity, improving sleep, and boosting energy.

Top 7 Exercise Plans for Arthritis

Exercises in the pool
Yoga
Pilates
Callanetics
Qigong
Tai Qi
Walking

Read more...http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=672

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Helping Seniors Find Purpose & Meaning in Retirement

2010-09-09T08:48:00.000-07:00

Find Purpose & Meaning in Retirement
Written By : Cynthia Barnett

As you may know, people react differently to retirement. For some folks, it is the best time of their lives, a time for adventure, fun and excitement. A time when they can kick up their heels, relax, and enjoy the free time on their hands. For others, retirement is a period of boredom and insecurity. This is because they aren't used to the flexible schedule and miss meeting and socializing with others in work related activities. They also miss the predictability of their days and nights. That said, everyone can find joy and happiness in retirement and beat the retirement blues. In fact, you can have a retirement filled with meaning by simply following these 5 tips:

http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1352

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NY Governor Signs Domestic Worker Rights Bill into Law

2010-09-03T07:31:00.000-07:00

August 31, 2010
Governor Paterson Signs Domestic Workers Bill of Rights

Governor David A. Paterson today signed into law a landmark bill to grant workplace protections to domestic workers, the first such law to be enacted in the nation. Domestic workers had been excluded from many of the rights granted to other employees by legislation enacted in the past.

Among other provisions, this bill provides for:

The right to overtime pay at time and a half after 40 hours of work in a week, or 44 hours for in-home workers;
A day of rest every seven days, or overtime pay if it is waived;
Three paid days of rest annually after one year of work;
The removal of the domestic workers exemption from the Human Rights Law, and the creation of a special cause of action for domestic workers who suffer sexual or racial harassment;
The extension of statutory disability benefits to domestic workers, to the same degree as other workers; and
A study by the Commissioner of Labor on the practicality of extending collective bargaining rights to domestic workers.
http://www.state.ny.us/governor/press/08312010DWBOR.html

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Parents Seek Bilingual Nannies

2010-09-01T20:59:00.000-07:00

Somehow, I missed this article in the NYT about parents seeking bilingual nannies for their children.

Last year, I asked my nanny to speak to my children (ages 3 & 6) exclusively in Spanish and it has been a mixed bag. Both my children now understand Spanish but my oldest child has resisted speaking it and that influenced my youngest child to do the same. I thought it would be nice for my children to be bilingual and I'm still hopeful they will soon feel the same way.

Anyway, we get this request all the time, so I thought I would share this article

Happy Labor Day!

Looking for Baby Sitters: Foreign Language a Must
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/19/nyregion/19bilingual.html?pagewanted=1&_r=2&sq=Bilingual%20Nannies&st=cse&scp=1

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Family Activities and Events for the End of Summer

2010-08-13T09:02:00.000-07:00

Fun activities for the whole family to enjoy in the last few weeks of summer. We wanted to share some family friendly activities taking place in Westchester, NY, Greenwich, Conn. and Manhattan to enjoy in the last few weeks of summer. Have a wonderful August!

August 19
Shakespeare in the Park - New Haven - The Elm Shakespeare Company presents Shakespeare's The Winter's Tale. At 5 p.m., enjoy food and drinks. Edgerton Park, 75 Cliff Street. 8 p.m. Donation, $5-$20. 203-393-1436. Also Aug. 20-22, 24-29 and Aug. 31-Sept. 5.

Thrilling Thursdays - Wilton - Cowboy Billy will amuse children with his stories and songs of the Wild West. Enjoy comedy, songs and art. For ages 4-9 with caregiver. Pre-register. Wilton Library, 137 Old Ridgefield Road. 2-3 p.m. Free. 203-762-3950.

August 20
2010 RiverFlicks for Kids: Free Outdoor Summer Movie Series - Hudson River Park's Pier 46, Manhattan
Enjoy family favorite movies outdoors along the Hudson River, every Friday evening from July 9 through August 20. All films are rated G or PG. Complimentary popcorn. Refreshments available for purchase.
http://www.nymetroparents.com/neweventinfo.cfm?id=59738

August 21
Movies for Kids and Their Families: "The Great Muppet Caper" - Jacob Burns Film Center, Westchester
Jim Henson’s second live-action Muppet feature stars Kermit, Fozzie, and Gonzo as investigative reporters hot on the trail of a jewel thief. Filled with corny jokes, and musical numbers. Rated G
http://www.nymetroparents.com/neweventinfo.cfm?id=60877

Behind-the-Scenes Tour - Norwalk - See how the animal husbandry staff meets the varying food and water needs of the resident animals. Ages 10 and up. Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St. 8:15-10 a.m. $20-$30. RSVP. 203-852-0700, ext. 2206.

Explore the Stream - Westport - Learn about the streams and rivers that run through town. Explore Stony Brook. Go into the water so wear sneakers and old clothes. Earthplace-Nature Discovery, 10 Woodside Lane. 11 a.m.-noon. Free with admission. 203-227-7253.

Adventures of Huckleberry Finn - Bridgeport - This lecture will look at Mark Twain's masterpiece in the context of the history of race relations in America from slavery to the Civil Rights Movement. Barnum Museum, 820 Main St. 3 p.m. Museum admission. 203-331-1104.

Shakespeare on the Green - Ridgefield - Hudson Valley Shakespeare Festival presents an original interpretation of The Taming of the Shrew. Green Expo begins at noon. Ridgefield Playhouse, 80 East Ridge. 2 p.m. show. Free, tickets must be reserved. 203-438-5795.

Summer Blockbuster Series: 'The Princess Bride'- Symphony Space, Manhattan
See this classic film on the big screen.
http://www.nymetroparents.com/neweventinfo.cfm?id=64500

Central Park Conservancy's Summer Chess Series - Chess & Checkers House, Central Park, Manhattan
Learn local Grandmasters' secrets to improve your chess game and then test your new skills against theirs or a friend's
http://www.nymetroparents.com/neweventinfo.cfm?id=60566

August 22
Family Pond Exploration - Audubon Greenwich, Fairfield
Hop around the pond with Audubon staff and get up close to the tiny creatures that call the nearby pond home. Equipment provided. Space limited. RSVP to Store at x221
http://www.nymetroparents.com/neweventinfo.cfm?id=62704

Family Art Project: Fishy Fun -Wave Hill, Riverdale, NY
Focus on friends with fins, especially those popular goldfish swimming in the Aquatic Garden. Turn colorful paper bags into 3-D fish that can swim through the air and flutter home with you.
http://www.nymetroparents.com/neweventinfo.cfm?id=63197

August 25
The Boogers - Westport - Anti-Barney and the Wiggles' worst nightmare, they sound like a cross between the Ramones and a book of nursery rhymes! Pre-show festivities at 6:30 p.m. Levitt Pavilion, 40 Jesup Road. 7 p.m. Free. 203-221-2153.

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Interactive Video Games Promote Healthy Aging

2010-08-11T20:48:00.000-07:00

Wii Games Promote Healthy Aging
Written By : Diane Carbo

Nintendo Wii games are like using a brain fitness program to promote healthy aging. You flex your mental muscles as well as improve physical fitness at the same time.

Studies show that in 2008, 26 percent of aging individuals over the age of 50 played video games. This is an increase of 9 percent from 1999, according to release of data from the Entertainment Software Association...http://www.senioradvice.com/inner.php?aid=172

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Helping Senior Citizens Stay Active and Connected

2010-07-15T07:40:00.000-07:00

Making New Friends in Retirement
Written By : Cynthia Barnett

After retiring, you may find yourself needing to make new friends. Perhaps your other friends are still employed or maybe you simply want to find new friends with whom you can share this wonderful new experience. Whatever, the reason may be, making new friends after retirement can be a blast and doesn't have to be a scary or frustrating process. In this brief but informative article, we will discuss five proven tips that you can use today to make new friends. So, sit back, relax, grab a cup of coffee and get ready to learn....
http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1353

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NYS Passes Domestic Workers’ Rights Bill

2010-07-04T12:34:00.000-07:00

ALBANY — New York lawmakers on Thursday approved the first law in the nation granting workplace rights to domestic workers such as nannies and housekeepers, a major victory for workers’ advocates and one with sweeping implications for the estimated 200,000 such workers in the New York City metropolitan area.
http://cityroom.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/07/01/domestic-workers-rights-bill-passes/

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Creating a Safe Home Enviorment for Seniors

2010-07-02T15:55:00.000-07:00

Keep Seniors Safe at Home
Written By : Ronna Sather

Assuming that obvious clutter and tripping hazards have been removed, keeping seniors safer at home boils down to the following 3 basic categories: prevention, minimizing injury, and summoning help...

http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1430

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Four on the Fifth in New Canaan, Connecticut

2010-07-01T10:11:00.000-07:00

July 5th is the 28th annual (Four on the Fourth) Independence Day Race in New Canaan. Great way to start off the day with a 4 mile run along scenic Oenoke Ridge in New Canaan. Stop by and say hello as Wee Care Nanny will again be sponsoring the water table at the finish line and providing fun toys for the children.

July 5, 2010
Monday, 9 AM St. Mark's Church, Rt. 124, New Canaan, CT
http://www.clubct.org/Races/Fourth/Fourth.html

Hope to see you there!

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Seniors & Pets - Increasing the Quality of Life

2010-06-17T07:06:00.000-07:00

I wanted to share this because my 82 year old father recently adopted a Terrier and it has had a very positive impact on his life.

Pets for Seniors - Enhance Quality of Life
Written By : G. Dube

Recent studies indicate that seniors who own pets, live longer, experience better health and enjoy life much more than the senior who has no pet companionship. Results have shown that pet owners often experience a decrease in temperature, stress level, and even blood pressure! In addition to this luxury of companionship, pets can provide joy, entertainment, love and security and even calm the pet owner. Pets love you for being you -- not for the psychological games you play -- not "only" for the treats you shell out frequently -- they are forgiving, loyal and love you unconditionally.

Learn the 6 ways pet ownership can enhance a senior's quality of life:
http://www.seniorslist.com/inner.php?aid=1178

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NYS Set to Pass New Law Offering Certain Protections to Nannies & Other Domestic Workers

2010-06-02T21:45:00.000-07:00

New York Expected to Give Protections to Nannies

The NYS State Senate this week passed a bill that would require paid holidays, sick days and vacation days for domestic workers, along with overtime wages. It would require 14 days’ notice, or termination pay, before firing a domestic worker.
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/03/nyregion/03nanny.html?pagewanted=1&hp

Wee Care Nanny has long encouraged our clients to offer these workplace guarantees to their nannies, housekeepers and other domestic workers. In fact, we strongly advise and help clients put together a Family/Nanny Worker Agreement that covers the particulars of each job, responsibilities, salary, vacation time, sick days, overtime and notice of termination. This helps to ensure there is no ambiguity going forward which could lead to misunderstandings, resentment, poor job performance, absenteeism and resignation or termination. Moreover, we have found that such measures are in both parties best interests for several reasons:

It reduces turnover significantly and helps to retain experienced and professional caregivers and other domestics.
It makes for a better employer/employee relationship-and the dividends get passed onto the children in the form of unconditional love and care.
If you treat someone like a professional they are more apt to act professionally and really engage, motivate and help educate their charges.
It's simply the right thing to do for a person you entrust to care for your most valuable and irreplaceable "possessions".

Fortunately, most of our clients already understand the importance of offering basic workplace guarantees and reap the benefits such protections help to ensure for their loved ones.

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The 10 Biggest Choking Hazards for Children

2010-05-27T21:37:00.000-07:00

Read this in the NYT Health section and wanted to pass it along.

The 10 Biggest Choking Hazards

According to a 2008 study, the 10 foods that pose the highest choking hazards for young children are hot dogs, peanuts, carrots, boned chicken, candy, meat, popcorn, fish with bones, sunflower seeds and apples....
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/25/health/25bchoke.html?src=me&ref=health

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Nanny or Daycare-You Decide

2010-05-10T19:50:00.000-07:00

Naturally, this is a choice many parents are confronted with (and we get asked this question often enough) so we thought we would weigh in with our thoughts on the subject. At the risk of sounding self serving, we believe the benefit of having an experienced nanny outweighs even the best run childcare centers.

Why should I hire a nanny instead of using a childcare center? There are many reasons in our opinion:

For starters, your children will receive much more individual attention from a dedicated and nurturing caregiver of your choosing, allowing them to build relationship skills and form close bonds.
Children have a more secure and safe environment in a home setting. Your nanny can provide a lot of intellectual stimulation that overburdened, understaffed childcare centers may not be able to do.
The nanny can teach your children another language, engage them in art projects, and even create a "daycare" environment by inviting over other children to play and learn.
Children cared for at home tend to get sick less often than those placed in childcare centers.
On the practical side, having a nanny come to you is far easier than packing up your children every morning and driving to a center, and you get the added benefit of having someone to help with the household chores.
Finally, if you have two or more children, a nanny is less expensive than even a moderately priced childcare center.

We hope this helps.

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Hiring or Working as a Summer Nanny in CT or NY

2010-05-05T07:05:00.000-07:00

Had a lot of requests about summer nannies so I thought I would repost this artice. Hope this helps!

Summer Nannies FAQ's

Summer Nannies: Seven Frequently-Asked Questions About Working as a Summer Nanny, or Hiring One

With summer right around the corner, many families are making plans for summer vacation. As kids look forward to a break from the school-year routine, parents are faced with an array of decisions about summer child care and how to balance the needs of their children with the demands of their jobs. Families also think about vacations, and the challenge of planning a family trip that is fun and interesting for kids and adults alike.

Summer nannies – often students or teachers – frequently figure into these plans. Sometimes families with older children, who do not need a nanny during the school year, choose to hire a nanny for the summer because their children would prefer not to go to summer camp, or because the camp schedule doesn’t cover their needs. By hiring a nanny for summer child care, the parents make it possible for the children to spend unstructured time at home, playing with neighborhood children, taking advantage of local activities, or perhaps just enjoying some down time.

For other families, particularly those with babies or small children, a summer nanny enables them to take a family vacation that meets the needs and expectations of kids and adults alike. By taking a nanny with them on vacation, parents are able to spend some time along together, enjoy a leisurely meal at a nice restaurant, and relax, knowing that their children are well cared for.Whether you’re thinking about hiring a nanny for summer child care, or you’re interested in working as one, you’ve probably asked the following questions:

1. What do summer nannies do? Summer nannies may be full-time, part-time, live-in, or live-out. Like full-time, year-round nannies, they may be asked to manage light housekeeping duties in addition to taking care of children. Summer nannies and families should be sure to discuss these expectations, as well as salary and pay schedule, in advance of committing to work together for the summer.

2. How do families find summer nannies? Parents can find summer nannies through nanny agencies, as well as through the recommendations of friends and colleagues. Some resort and family travel destinations may be able to help you find short-term nanny services. In some cities parents will find nanny agencies that specialize in providing temporary nanny services with complete background checks. At destinations popular with families, the hotel may be able to help.

3. How can summer nannies find jobs? As for nannies, there are many ways to find summer nanny jobs, including through nanny agencies and through word of mouth. If you’re looking for work as a summer nanny, be sure to tell everyone you know of your interest in finding a summer nanny job. If you’re a student, check campus bulletin boards, the school paper, and any other places where families might advertise for a nanny.

4. How should expenses be handled when a nanny travels with a family? It’s important to remember that when a nanny accompanies a family on vacation, no matter how lovely the locale, the nanny is still working. The nanny and parents should discuss and agree on a schedule for the trip in advance, making sure that the nanny’s needs are met in terms of time off and breaks.Families should be prepared to cover all of the nanny’s travel expenses, including airfare, lodging, meals, and admission to attractions which he or she visits with the family. If the nanny does not eat all meals with the family, s/he should be given a meal allowance to purchase meals.

5. What accommodations should be provided? If at all possible, the nanny should have a separate bedroom, not one shared with the children, so that the nanny has a place to rest and relax when off duty.

6. How much does a summer nanny earn? Salaries for summer nannies vary tremendously depending on the number of children in their care, the number of hours they work, the responsibilities they’re given, their level of experience and education, and the region of the country where they are employed. Ballpark guidelines range from $8 to $22 per hour. The best way to find out what’s typical in your area is to ask a nanny agency, or to ask several friends or colleagues who have either hired nannies or have worked as a nanny.

7. What about taxes? Remember that summer nannies are subject to the same tax regulation as year-round nannies. For more info, see: Year-end Tax Tips for Employees

This article was published on nanny.com newsletter, April 2009

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Grandchildren, Grandparents & Technology

2010-05-05T06:58:00.000-07:00

The Child Philosopher

2010-04-20T14:23:00.000-07:00

The Examined Life, Age 8

We found this to be an interesting article about using classic children’s books to raise philosophical questions and have young children begin to engage in deeper thought and friendly debates.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/04/18/education/edlife/18philosophy-t.html?src=me&ref=general

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Activities for Grandparents to do with the Grandkids

2010-04-06T08:18:00.000-07:00

Grandparenting Activity Suggestions
Written By : Colleen Kitchen

Calling all parents and grandparents: Are you stuck for a suggestion for activities grandparents can do with their grandchildren? Look no further -- you have found a big list of things to do. Surely there will be at least one of these things that captures someone's imagination. This is only a jumping off place, to spark you to think of many other ideas. If you know of a great activity for grandchildren and grandparents to do, please write to me: I'd love to hear it. Here is my list:
http://www.senioradvice.com/inner.php?aid=155

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Seniors Aging Well, The Benefits of Laughter

2010-03-30T07:33:00.000-07:00

Priceless Humor and the Benefits of Laughter
Written By : Diane Carbo

Research has shown that human aging has a mind body connection that we enjoy with the benefits of laughter. Humor, priceless humor, and our response to it can have many unexpected health benefits.

Who would ever think that laughing can be so beneficial? Here are some reported health benefits of laughter and a good sense of priceless humor:
http://www.senioradvice.com/inner.php?aid=113

Diane Carbo Registered Nurse has more than thirty five years in the nursing field. Her experience as a geriatric care manager, makes her uniquely qualified to help those who want to live out their lives in their own homes. Diane has developed a web site to make people aware of issues and options. You will find extensive helpful information that will be continually updated.

Upcoming Events for Familes-Kids Fest (Wilton, CT) & Parenting Fair (Stamford, CT)

2010-03-19T08:27:00.000-07:00

Great Fun for the Family

Wee Care Nanny Agency is pleased to announce that we will be apart of two great upcoming events in Fairfield County, Connecticut.

1. The nineteenth annual KidsFest will be held from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Wilton High School Field House on Sunday, March, 28, 2010. The Kids Fest is an exposition designed for young families with entertainment, education and businesses catering to parents and children. There will be a puppet show, music, face painting and much more. Wee Care Nanny will be meeting with families and discussing our services for permanent and temporary nannies, housekeepers, babysitters and other domestic providers.

2. Wee Care Nanny will again be a featured vendor at the Parenting Fair at UBS in Stamford from 12 p.m. to 2 p.m. on Friday, April 30, 2010. This event is sponsored by the Working Parents Network (WPN) at UBS and is for UBS' several thousand employees based in the area. Wee Care will be discussing all of our services with a focus on our Sitting Service (Wee Care Sitters) and corporate back-up care.

We hope you will stop by and say hello!

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7 Steps to Help Seniors Age Well

2010-03-10T07:50:00.000-08:00

Life Begins After Retirement
Written By : Debarati Chatterjee

Here are few ways to stay active and make money after retirement. Work is the important way of coping with the nagging worries.
http://www.senioradvice.com/inner.php?aid=217

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Video Games Shown to Promote Healthy Aging in Seniors

2010-03-01T07:21:00.000-08:00

Wii Games Promote Healthy Aging

Written by Diane Carbo

Nintendo Wii games are like using a brain fitness program to promote healthy aging. You flex your mental muscles as well as improve physical fitness at the same time.

Studies show that in 2008, 26 percent of aging individuals over the age of 50 played video games. This is an increase of 9 percent from 1999, according to release of data from the Entertainment Software Association...

www.senioradvice.com/inner.php?aid=172

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Helping Moms Manage Communication with their Nanny

2010-02-05T09:56:00.000-08:00

I read this article and wanted to pass it along. We are frequently guiding parents on how to communicate certain requests to their nanny. It is true that bringing up certain issues with your current nanny can cause some families a lot of unnecessary angst. It is always a good idea to have an employment contract in place which spells out all the responsibilities of the job and compensation package. Go over the work agreement before the job begins and work out any foreseeable issues or misunderstandings. Naturally, issues will arise once the job begins and you should address that verbally and in your contract. And agree to always have an open line of communication going forward. We end the sample employment contract we ask families to complete before the nanny starts her first day with the following language:

We want to welcome you into our home and our children’s lives. We are happy to have you and hope you will remain with us for a long time and become a major part of our children’s lives.

The Parents and Nanny both agree to sit down at a mutually convenient time and discuss any disagreements, misunderstandings, or change in job description in a calm and rational manner. We will treat each other as professionals with courtesy and respect always keeping in mind that the children’s well being and happiness is always first and foremost.

How to Speak Nanny
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/04/garden/04nannies.html?em

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Raising a Happy, Healthy and Active Child

2010-01-28T21:30:00.000-08:00

Small Steps: A Good-Health Guide

PARENTING has never been an easy job, but mothers and fathers today face challenges in raising their children that their own parents may never have had to address.
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/09/15/health/healthspecial2/15intro.html?_r=1

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The Federal Child and Dependent Care Tax Credit May be Increased

2010-01-25T19:01:00.001-08:00

President Obama plans to almost double the federal Child and Dependent Care Tax Credit.
http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2010/01/25/obama-to-propose-almost-doubling-child-care-tax-credit/#more-86862

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Helping Seniors Get Comfortable with Computers

2010-01-25T08:26:00.000-08:00

Seniors, contrary to popular opinion, are thrilled with modern technology and have embraced the world of computers enthusiastically. There are no "simple" computers designed especially for seniors because the concept of computers isn’t that difficult to begin with---it just seems that way...
http://www.senioradvice.com/inner.php?aid=176

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New Information About How to Treat Bed-Wetting

2010-01-13T20:15:00.000-08:00

To Treat Bed-Wetting, Healthy Doses of Patience

A couple of weeks ago, I saw a 5-year-old girl who was still wetting the bed every night. It’s a common complaint: at least 15 percent of healthy 5-year-olds are not reliably “dry” at night. And bed-wetting is quite common even in older children...

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/12/health/12klas.html?ref=science

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Keeping Grandchildren Close to Grandparents Despite the Distance

2009-12-22T17:27:00.000-08:00

Grandparenting Long Distance

It can be tough on families when grandparents are separated by a great distance from their grandchildren. It is only natural to want to be close to those that you love. But being a long distance grandparent does not mean that you cannot be a fully involved one. There are plenty of great ways to maintain your connection with your grandchildren. Discover some of the ways you can make your family the priority that they are without ever having to feel guilty or distressed over the space between you. Space and time does not determine the quality of love and commitment that you have for one another...

http://www.senioradvice.com/inner.php?aid=215

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CT Teachers Make Math & Science More Appealing to Students

2009-12-21T21:02:00.000-08:00

Teachers Defying Gravity to Gain Students’ Interest

NORWALK, Conn. — Before showing a video to the 11th and 12th graders in his physics class, Glenn Coutoure, a teacher at Norwalk High School, warned them that his mouth would be hanging open, in childlike wonderment, almost the whole time.

Mr. Coutoure then started the DVD, showing him and other science teachers floating in an airplane during a flight in September. By flying up and down like a giant roller coaster along parabolic paths, the plane simulated the reduced gravity of the Moon and Mars and then weightlessness in 30-second chunks.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/12/22/science/space/22teachers.html?ref=science

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Encouraging Seniors to Stay Healthy and Active

2009-11-26T16:49:00.000-08:00

Encouraging Wellness
Written By : The Caring Space

No matter the age, anyone can experience the benefits of a healthy lifestyle. Senior citizens are prone to experiencing certain conditions, like heart disease, high blood pressure, high cholesterol levels, and diabetes. To reduce the risk of these conditions, it is important that senior citizens exercise and eat a healthy diet. Those involved in the elder care of senior citizens should encourage and try to facilitate these healthy practices.....
http://www.senioradvice.com/inner.php?aid=226

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Helping Children Deal with Stress

2009-11-18T21:04:00.000-08:00

Helping Our Children With Stress
By Lisa Belkin

Every year the American Psychological Association takes our emotional temperature with its report titled Stress in America. This year, for the first time, children were also asked about their stress levels. The conclusion? Not only are our kids feeling it, we parents aren’t noticing.

http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/11/05/helping-our-children-with-stress/?scp=7&sq=children&st=cse

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LEGO Kids Fest in Hartford November 20-22

2009-10-23T08:05:00.000-07:00

Coming to Hartford, Connecticut November 20-22, the LEGO KidsFest will be an energetic 3-day show filled with interactive, creative and educational activities for the whole family.

http://www.legokidsfest.com/index.htm

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Suggestions for Introducing the New Nanny to Your Children

2009-10-08T19:21:00.000-07:00

I read this article from nanny.com and there are some good suggestions about easing the transition to choosing a new or first time nanny.

Introducing a New Nanny? Seven Steps for Ensuring a Smooth Transition

Introducing your child to a new nanny, whether this is your child’s first nanny or the new nanny will be taking the place of a previous caregiver, can be stressful for everyone involved. Even with the best planning, there are sure to be unexpected bumps along the road, but a little preparation goes a long way towards smoothing the transition. Following are seven suggestions that may help:

1. Acknowledge your child’s attachment to his previous caregiver: If your child had a strong bond with his or her previous nanny, understand that in order to bond with a new nanny, your child must come to terms with the loss of the previous caregiver. Explain the reasons for the transition. Acknowledge your child’s feelings toward his beloved nanny, and if possible, continue to maintain contact with her.

2. Keep your child in the loop: If your child is old enough, get her “buy in” on the new nanny by involving her in the selection process. Ask her what she loved most about the previous nanny, and look for candidates with those qualities. If appropriate, involve your child in interview process and ask for her opinions. Explain why you are choosing the candidate you ultimately select.

3. Give the new nanny a helping hand: Give her as much information as possible about your child. Let her know what your child valued most in his relationship with the previous nanny, and provide as much information as possible about your child’s likes, dislikes, fears, interests, favorite activities, and daily schedule.

4. Be consistent: Help your new nanny to maintain a consistent structure and set of expectations for your child. Children feel most secure and comfortable when they are held to a consistent standard of behavior, regardless of who is in charge. Be clear with the nanny about your child’s schedule for meals and naptimes, and your expectation that the schedule will be followed as closely as possible. Make sure the new nanny understands what foods are permissible for meals and which are saved for occasional treats, and the limits your family enforces on time spent watching television or using the computer.

5. Spend time together: Ease the transition by inviting the new nanny to visit and play a few times before she officially starts work. Not only will this help your child to get acquainted with the new nanny, but your child will develop trust in the nanny if she sees that you trust the nanny, too. Make sure you communicate this trust verbally and through your body language towards the nanny. Try visiting a few of your child’s favorite places together, or participating in a few of her favorite at-home activities.

6. Consider adjusting the schedule if needed: For some young children, maintaining a consistent daily schedule can help smooth transitions. Some children find it confusing to be in a nanny’s care occasionally – say three times a week for a full day – and are happier going for shorter periods Monday through Friday. If your work schedule permits it, you might want to consider shifting your hours if your child is having trouble adjusting to an inconsistent daily schedule.

7. Know how to say “goodbye”: Make “goodbyes” easier by finding the right time and place to say them. It may be easier for some children to say “goodbye” if they are outside, or getting ready to go for a walk, as this may give them a sense that they are the one leaving for a fun activity. Just make sure your child understands that you are leaving, too, either by getting into your car or being dressed for an outing, so that he’s not disappointed when he returns home to find you gone. Make goodbyes quick, and let your child know when you’ll be home.

http://www.nanny.com/newsletter_oct-09.php

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Advice for Dealing with Defiant Kindergartners

2009-09-23T20:24:00.000-07:00

Defiance: Why it happens and what to do about it
by Karen Miles Reviewed by the BabyCenter Medical Advisory Board

Why kindergartners defy their parents
http://www.babycenter.com/0_defiance-why-it-happens-and-what-to-do-about-it_66564.bc

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When a Parent’s ‘I Love You’ Means ‘Do as I Say’

2009-09-15T18:29:00.000-07:00

This article explores new research about "conditional parenting". I found it interesting and wanted to share it.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/15/health/15mind.html?em

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Children's Museums & Other Attractions for Family Fun in Connecticut

2009-09-03T11:30:00.001-07:00

A list of local museums, performance arts centers and other attractions for the children in the Fairfield County and surrounding areas in CT. You may also want your nanny to visit some of these attractions with your children. Enjoy!

MUSEUMS/ATTRACTIONS

THE CHILDREN’S MUSEUM 950 Trout Brook Drive, West Hartford, CT (860) 231-2824 http://www.thechildrensmuseumct.org/ A one-of-a-kind science and nature museum providing rich learning experiences through hands-on exhibits, over 100 live animals, digital planetarium shows, science demonstrations and a variety of educational programs. We feature the only science-based preschool in CT and the Roaring Brook Nature Center in Canton.

COCO KEY WATER RESORT Holiday Inn, 3580 East Main St., Waterbury, CT (203) 706-1000 http://www.cocokeywaterresort.com/ A real Key Water adventure. From the thrilling Shark Slam, Gator Gush and Barracuda Blast water slides, to the Coral Reef Cavern activity pool, Dip in Theatre, Coconut Grove adventure river, Palm Grotto indoor/outdoor spa, Parrot Perch’s interactive play island, Pizza Hut Express and snack bar, there is something for everyone!

THE DISCOVERY MUSEUM 4450 Park Avenue, Bridgeport, CT (203) 372-3521 http://www.discoverymuseum.org/ A hands-on, brains-on interactive museum for kids of all ages, located on the Fairfield/Bridgeport border. The museum offers exciting exhibits, thrilling planetarium shows, the Challenger Learning Center, the area’s only CineMuse High Definition Theatre and the Kids at Work preschool activity area.

THE MARITIME AQUARIUM AT NORWALK 10 North Water Street, Norwalk, CT (203) 852-0700 http://www.maritimeaquarium.org/ Families will have a great time while learning about the vital natural resource just off our shore. Explore at your own pace. Thirty-four exhibits featuring more than 1,200 marine animals of 259 species. A Touch Tank and nose-to-nose interactions bring close encounters with our friends of the sea. Movies at IMAX Theater as well.

MATTATUCK MUSEUM ARTS & HISTORY CENTER 144 West Main Street, Waterbury, CT (203) 753-0381 http://www.mattatuckmuseum.org/ The museum brings the past, present and future together through exhibits and collections showcasing the history of the region and art of Connecticut. View great works by American Masters, experience the “you-were-there” history of the Waterbury region and explore the 10,000 buttons on display.

NATURE'S ART & DINOSAUR CROSSING 1650 Route 85, Oakdale, CT (860) 443-4367 http://www.thedinosaurplace.com/ A day of prehistoric fun awaits at Nature’s Art, aka the Dinosaur Place. Indoors enjoy hands-on science and nature activities such as mining for gemstones and excavating a dinosaur skeleton. Outdoors encounter more than 25 life-sized dinosaurs set amid walking trails, romp in Monty’s Playground and enjoy ice cream.

QUASSY AMUSEMENT PARK Middlebury, CT 1-800-FOR-PARKhttp://www.quassy.com/ Affordable family fun close to home. Rides, “Saturation Station” water play area, entertainment, food, arcade, special events.

SHORE LINE TROLLEY MUSEUM 17 River Street, East Haven, CT (203) 467-6927 http://www.bera.org/ Savor the atmosphere of the trolley era. Ride the historic Branford Electric Railway, the oldest continually operating suburban trolley in the United States. Anational historic site. Days of operation: Memorial Day to Labor Day, Daily. Hours:10:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Sat. & Sun. in May, Sept., Oct. Abbreviated schedule in Nov. & Dec.

STEPPING STONES MUSEUM FOR CHILDREN Mathews Park, 303 West Avenue, Norwalk, CT (203) 899-0606 http://www.steppingstonesmuseum.org/ Join the crew and discover building basics with Stepping Stones' newest exhibit, Build It! Help finish a two-story home under construction. Children can build walls, apply siding and decorate with carpet squares and wallpaper. Learn about the building process and take a sneak peak at Stepping Stones' expansion plans for 2010.

PERFORMANCE ARTS

EDGERTON CENTER FOR PERFORMING ARTS 5151 Park Avenue, Fairfield, CT (203) 371-7908 http://www.edgertoncenter.org/ The Edgerton Center, a 776-seat theatre located on Sacred Heart University’s Fairfield campus, is dedicated to presenting professional family theatre, with an educational emphasis, to Connecticut’s younger audiences.

PLAYHOUSE ON THE GREEN 177 State Street, Bridgeport, CT (203) 333-3666 http://www.playhouseonthegreen.org/ The Playhouse presents Project Broadway, a summer theater program for children in gr. 1-8. Work as a team with professional artists to create a Broadway style musical! Weeklong programs in July & Aug. Project Broadway @ Night for gr. 9-12 is a five-week program, which will result in a production of Romeo and Juliet!

QUICK CENTER FOR THE ARTS Fairfield University(203) 254-4010http://www.quickcenter.com/ Presenting the finest in family-oriented events, including plays and musicals, children's summer theatre camps, and interactive workshops. Ask about special group discounts and free birthday parties.

RIDGEFIELD PLAYHOUSE80 East Ridge Road, Ridgefield, CT (203) 438-5795 http://www.ridgefieldplayhouse.org/ Features live events and first run movies for children and adults alike. The Children’s Series features nine exciting performances one Saturday per month through May. For information call the box office at 203-438-5795.

SPORTS AND ENTERTAINMENT

XL CENTER & WOLF PACK
1 Civic Center Plaza, Hartford, CThttp://www.hartfordciviccenter.com/

www.hartfordwolfpack.com
Home to the AHL Hartford Wolf Pack, and host to a wide array of family shows, concerts & sporting events. Box Office Info Line: 860-727-8010; Event tickets (Ticketmaster): 860-525-4500; Hartford Wolf Pack tickets & Birthday Parties: 860-548-2000; Hartford Wolf Pack Kid’s Club: 860-246-7825.

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Can Chamomile Soothe a Colicky Baby?

2009-08-31T19:29:00.000-07:00

Really? The Claim: Chamomile Can Soothe a Colicky Baby.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/01/health/01real.html?ref=science

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Ideas For Summer Fun With The Grandkids

2009-07-28T07:54:00.000-07:00

Summer Fun With Your Grandchildren
By G. Grigor

10 Fun Ideas to do With Your Grandchildren This Summer

Are you looking for ways to have some summer fun with your grandchild? Summer is a time when most children get to go to their grandparents house for a day, a week, or longer. So finding ideas to help keep summer fun can be daunting.

We are going to offer ten fun ideas to help get you started. Many of these ideas cost little or no money, but the memories that you can build will last a lifetime.

1. Plan a day that you can go on a nature walk and pack a picnic. You do not have to go any farther than your own back yard or to your local park. Take along a book that identifies different birds, plants, insects, or other animals. While picnicking, talk about what you have seen and read about them from the books that you have brought along.

2. Do you have a favorite family recipe? Or does your grandchild have a favorite meal? Spend time with them in the kitchen helping them learn to cook or bake. Then sit down and share that dinner. Eating a meal cooked together makes the meal taste extra yummy.

3. Go to a pick your own farm to pick strawberries, berries, or other fruit. Then bake a pie or other yummy fruit dessert. You could even make your own ice cream to top it off.

4. Do you live near the beach? Go collect shells or build sand castles. If you live near a lake, try rowing a boat, fishing, or canoeing. If this isn't possible, set up a small wading pool in your yard and splash to your heart's content. Yes, you too!

5. Set up a lemonade stand and let your grandchild chose how to spend the profits or save it.

6. Go camping in your backyard. Set up a tent, fire up the grill, make s'mores or roast marshmallows and tell campfire stories or have a sing-along. Catch fireflies in a jar. Point out different constellations, or just gaze at the stars before falling asleep.

7. Make a small area of your garden specifically for your grandchild. Get gardening tools that are their size and let them plant flowers or vegetables and care for this section by themselves. Or get a pot or window box and do the same.

8. Go to the local library if you do not have children's books around your house any more, and choose books that the two of you can read together. Start off by each reading a sentence, then a paragraph, a page and so on. This is an excellent way to keep a child reading and ready for the next school year.

9. Do you knit, sew, crochet, or paint? Teach your hobby to your grandchild. If you are not a crafty person, get two plain white t-shirts to decorate. You can paint them, attach "rhinestones", or tie dye them. Have a fashion show of your designed shirts. Just have fun, worry about the mess later.

10. Get some chalk and draw on the sidewalks or your driveway. Re-learn how to play hopscotch, draw your family, favorite animals, or a story.

This is just a small outline of things that you can do with one grandchild or ten grandchildren. Just remember to take lots and lots of photos of the time you spend together.

Something that you can do together or you can do alone is to put together a scrapbook of the time that you shared. If you do it by yourself, you can give the scrapbook later as a birthday or Christmas gift as a reminder of the great time that you had.

The most important thing is to spend time with them and have tons of FUN. To a child it is not important how much money is spent in the pursuit of fun; it is the quality of the time spent together.

For more grandparenting ideas, you can visit: http://www.grandparentscafe.com. This site offers information on grandparent's rights, distance grandparenting, as well as photos, stories, games, and more.

One of my favorite quotes that I have found since becoming a grandma is as follows: "If your baby is beautiful and perfect, never cries or fusses, sleeps on schedule and burps on demand, an angel all the time...you're the grandma."~Theresa Bloomingdale

Gillian is the proud grandmother of two 9 year olds and a new grandbaby boy.

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Toddler-Friendly Summer Celebrations

2009-06-16T20:48:00.000-07:00

Some cute ideas for enjoying a little summertime fun with the children.

Toddler-Friendly Summer Celebrations
By Robin McClure

Flip-Flop Fun
For fashionable summer fun, you and your child can make a unique pair of flip-flops for a caregiver, babysitter, or friend. Have your youngster help you pick out some ribbon and gemstones or other decorative items to add to a pair of flip-flops. Cut a 19-inch strip of ribbon (you can always trim the ends shorter, depending on the style and size of flip-flop selected) and fashion a pretty bow from it. Trim the ends off at a diagonal. Use a hot-melt glue gun to fasten the ribbon onto the Y-part of the flip-flop (adults need to do this part, please). Add a charm, stone, or other item to the center of the bow (not using anything is okay too).
Your toddler will get a kick out of making them, and will love giving them as a gift even more.

Ice Cream in a Bag
Who needs to wait for hand-cranked homemade ice cream when kids can create their own individual, serving–size creation in no time and with no mess! This homemade ice cream recipe uses a toddler’s energy for a delicious outcome!

Ingredients
1 cup milk (use chocolate milk if preferred)
2 tsp. sugar
1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
1-quart resealable bag
1-gallon resealable bag
several spoonfuls of rock salt enough ice to cover the small bag Place milk, sugar, and vanilla into the small bag and zip the bag securely. Put the small bag into the larger bag. Add ice and salt. Let your toddler shake the bag gently for about 5 minutes. When it is done, the ice cream will have the consistency of soft serve. Enjoy!

Made in the Shade
Establish a shady outdoor area for special summer reading. Grab some chairs or a blanket and establish this as your special reading area. Find books about summer that involve outdoor activities, vacations, or just ways to soak up the sunshine and read them with your child.

Painting Van Goghs
It’s summertime, so why not let your little artists showcase their talent outdoors? Set up a large sheet of paper (or even use the large roll-sheets found at craft supply and teacher supply stores) either on an easel or on a flat surface. Dress your toddler in a swimsuit or old clothes, provide selections of water-based paint, and let the art begin! To encourage artistic expression, look at some simple art books together beforehand.

Tepee Hideout
Build your toddler a simple tepee for hours of backyard fun. Materials
3 white PVC pipes (8-foot pipes work best)
rope, canvas tarp, cloth, or blanket Using the rope, tie the PVC pipes together about 20–24 inches from the tops and then stand them up like a tripod. If possible, dig out an area of the ground so that the pipes are planted firmly. Cover the tepee frame with tarp, cloth, blanket, or whatever you have available.

Watermelon Cookies
Cut a seedless watermelon into 1/2-inch slices. Place the slices on a flat surface outdoors (to avoid a mess in your house) and use cookie cutters to cut out fun shapes. Kids will love eating their tasty “cookies,” and the shapes make the fruit easier to handle!

Robin McClure is currently the author of 5 parenting books.

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Greenwich Nanny's Arrest Prompts Hiring Advice

2009-06-06T06:07:00.000-07:00

On June 1, 2009, the "Greenwich Time" http://www.greenwichtime.com/ci_12496985 reported on the arrest of a live-in nanny working in Greenwich, Conn. She was charged with first-degree larceny, eight counts of third-degree forgery, eight counts of fraudulent use of an ATM card and breach of peace. The article discusses how the woman would ace her job interviews, get hired and then go on to defraud her employers. Apparently, she became very adept at her practice as she moved from family to family applying her deceitful trade.

We are always dismayed to read about the “bad apple” getting picked for such an important job. “When you allow someone into your house, you should know who they are,” said Detective Pasquale Iorfino of the Greenwich Police Department. We could not agree more. Unfortunately, more often than not, extensive screening and background checks are not properly conducted or done at all. We were disappointed (at the risk of sounding self-serving) that the article quotes the owner of a Web based "nanny" site for tips on screening and hiring a nanny. Mr. Lambert, the founder of Enannysource, stated that "screening is the most important part of the hiring process." That is absolutely true. However, these online listing sites by their very structures are unable to thoroughly screen a candidate. In fact, Web based sites contribute to many parents false sense of security in hiring a nanny. In effect, they are online databases with no barriers to entry. Anyone can post their profile and hold himself or herself out as an experienced and qualified caregiver. They merely list available jobs and caregivers and then offer an a la carte background check. Furthermore, many online sites advertise "National Criminal Checks" which can be very misleading. Those checks will often only determine if the subject was incarcerated in a state prison. Many online sites omit to inform you that those searches will not turn up persons that were convicted of a crime but not imprisoned or that served time in a county jail. Therefore, depending on the state, a county by county or statewide criminal check should also be done where the domestic worker has been shown to reside.

Since the hiring process can be overwhelming to a lot of families, we wanted to offer some additional practical advice. Most importantly, it is vital to meet and get to know the potential nanny in person. Together you should go over a detailed employment application and zero in on gaps in work history, discuss previous jobs and gauge responses to gently probing questions. For example, last week we had a nanny come in to register who seemed perfect. She was charming, sweet, athletic, a college graduate and had a recent six-year reference working with 3 children in the Tribeca section of Manhattan. However, the reference fell apart because the candidate told us she always lived in with the family but property records showed the apartment was only 600 square feet. Not a very likely scenario for a live-in job with a supposed family of five. Do online nanny sites expect a potential employer to think about that scenario or research it?

Again, we recognize this sounds self-serving, but it is difficult to properly vet a potential in house employee without being a seasoned interviewer. It’s imperative to be able to recognize some common red flags from the prospective employee and/or her references. They include:

Past employers who do not have a landline and can only be reached on a cell phone.
Past employers who do not reside in areas employing a high concentration of nannies and other domestics.
Tenuous explanations for wide gaps in employment.
Unstable work history.
Inability to provide authentic and valid federal and state photo identification.

Oddly enough, in my experience I have found that if a candidate is too perfect or throws around high profile names of previous employers, it’s usually a red flag that warrants a lot more digging. The stakes are too high to trust without verifying first. We hope this helps.

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Helping Children Maintain Good Nutritional Habits During the Summer Months

2009-06-02T13:08:00.000-07:00

Enjoyed this article from last year about helping children keep up good nutritional habits during the summer.

School Is Out, and Nutrition Takes a Hike
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/24/health/nutrition/24well.html

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Dealing with Young Children's Changing Emotions

2009-05-08T07:35:00.000-07:00

The Emotional Roller-Coaster
By Playskool Advisor Lawrence J. Cohen, PhD

I was baby-sitting my niece once when she was around two years old. She had a hard time saying goodbye to her mom and dad and a hard time settling in to play or have fun with me. I went to hold her and comfort her but she ran under the table and told me to go away. I asked her if I could come under the table with her to keep her company and she said no, I should leave the house. I said I couldn't do that, but I would move farther away. I stepped back a little and sat on the floor and asked if that was far enough away. She said yes, and began to cry a little. After a few minutes she came out from under the table and said, "The tears just popped out." "They certainly did," I said, and we both smiled. "Let's watch Cinderella," she said, "that wicked stepmother is really mean. She says, 'hold your tongue!'"

I think the lesson from this story is that it can be confusing to us what to do as young children's emotions change dramatically about a thousand times during each day. They can swing from happy to sad to scared to worried to happy to everything in between. And they don't just feel their feelings. They feel them, extravagantly, like they just invented that emotion. Fortunately, our job as adults is not to keep them happy all the time, or to protect them from every tough feeling. Our job instead is to help them learn the skills they need to ride that roller coaster without flying off--to manage their emotions.

If I had left the room, my niece would have been all alone with her sadness. If I had moved in too close, she would have been mad at me for crowding her. If I had tried too fast to cheer her up, she would have felt invalidated about her feelings. But what happened instead is that she was able to cry about the separation, while knowing I was nearby. That made it possible for her to make the transition to enjoying herself. Many adults say that it hurts to cry. But when my niece said that the tears "just popped out" she was expressing how easily tears can flow if you aren't trying to shove them back in.

Here are some tips for helping children regulate their emotions as they grow--but don't expect them to learn it quickly!

Help them name their emotions, but do this a little bit tentatively so that we aren't telling them what they feel, we're just helping them find words for what they feel. As they get older, expand their emotional vocabulary beyond mad, sad, and scared. ("It looks like maybe you're kind of frustrated.")

Welcome a full expression of the feeling before moving into the "cheer up" phase. ("Tell me all about it.") We might think they are upset over a small thing, but to them it is big and deserves a lot of feelings. If they can truly finish expressing themselves, they are better able to truly cheer up.

Tell bedtime stories and play make-believe games with characters that have strong emotions, and who struggle a little with what to do with their emotions. ("Prince Ulrich was so mad he could scream, and he didn't know what to do. Do you have any ideas for him?")

It turns out my niece was right about that mean stepmother in Cinderella. "Hold your tongue" is just about the worst thing you can say to a child. In order to learn how to handle their emotions, they need a chance to speak up, let the tears flow, and explore what it means to be a person with the full range of human feelings.

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Nannies and Social Networking Sites

2009-05-08T07:22:00.000-07:00

The Nanny’s Guide to Facebook

http://www.nanny.com/newsletter_may-09.php

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Babies, Breast-Feeding and Pacifers...New Research

2009-05-06T08:04:00.000-07:00

Children: No Harm to Breast-Feeding From Pacifiers

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/05/health/05child.html?ref=science

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Westchester Children Lend a Hand

2009-04-28T14:36:00.000-07:00

Great article I wanted to share.

Doing a Few Chores, and Helping Bridge Bronxville and Nairobi

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/28/nyregion/28bronxville.html?_r=1&ref=nyregion

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Swaddling, the Practice of Tightly Wrapping a Baby in a Light Blanket

2009-04-16T20:24:00.000-07:00

The Right Way to Swaddle

http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/01/14/the-right-way-to-swaddle/

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Cute Article about the Economy & Household Help

2009-04-09T20:17:00.000-07:00

Be a Patriot: Hire a Housekeeper
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/09/fashion/09spy.html?_r=1&scp=1&sq=housekeeper&st=cse

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Summer Nannies FAQ's

2009-04-08T05:20:00.000-07:00

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Teaching Children About the Health Benefits of Water

2009-03-31T21:48:00.000-07:00

Adding school water fountains, distributing water bottles in classrooms and teaching kids about the health benefits of water can lower a child’s risk for becoming overweight, a new study shows.
http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/03/30/school-water-fountains-to-prevent-obesity/

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